women are too hard to understand, i thought i was an ok guy but womens standards are too high 
i just dont understand them and i feel they like to play with guys feelings
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Young women can be difficult,
Have you tried dating an older woman, one in her thirties or forties?
They tend to be a little more understanding and have more realistic expectations.
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do you actually have anything in common or ru forcing it? Trying to make the chick fit a role for you?
don’t give up on every woman bc 2 or 3 were bad to you or you werent compatible
maybe your expectations were unrealistic?
In any case, life is fu cking dark…
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na, i’m done
fed up trying to live up to their standards which are way too high, they look for the perfect guy but no such thing lol
its funny bc i bet all the women on here would be blaming me lol
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So you just messaged the prettiest women you saw? A lot of guys probably would do that. I doubt you did. Just curious how you picked out the ones you messaged.
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what are you trying to say? lol
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I think he’s trying to say, or at least I’m saying,
You also need to have realistic expectations.
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I don’t think you are superficial enough to just message the women with the prettiest photos. I’m just curious of your strategy on who you want to meet.
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i dont think my expectations are too high at all,
if i like their pic and their profile i send them a message but i have given up now as these women are just toying with me
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You can’t take rejection so personally,
It has less to do with you and more to do with them.
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i get it, you think its my fault, thats ok, you are allowed to think that lol
Leaving out religion what do you like about the women’s profiles?
many guys fail to put themselves out there…aka your former self.
regroup, reasess and don’t let bad events stop you from pursuing them
It might eventually work out if you dont generalize
as for what @GoldenRex said, pursue women with whom it will work out and don’t generalize “women” as that will hold you back
if you like women close to your age, you have a preference, but realize you can be compatible with anyone
the issue could lie anywhere, it may just be a matter of your perception being flawed, or she was not for you
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I said the opposite of that,
Also, part of dating is rejection,
You can’t just throw in the towel after a couple bad experiences.
My dating experiences are full of rejection and heartache,
Everyone who’s dated is.
How many women were you in contact with?
When it comes right down to it, its a numbers game,
You have to get out there and keep at it if you want a partner.
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i dont think i can do this anymore
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I’m just saying you shouldn’t be discouraged.
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My husband would frequently stop dating for several years at a time. He also found it frustrating, and needed breaks. But remember, it only needs to work out one time.
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thing is i cant see anything wrong with me except …
but i dont make that fact apparent but still, i cant work this ■■■■ out 
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Try not to think of it in terms of you not being good enough for someone else. You’re always going to be the right match for someone and the totally wrong match for someone else. They didn’t stop talking to you because they think you’re a bad dude. They just didn’t think you were compatible with them.
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i think i’d be a good catch, i try and think of it as ‘its their loss’ but still i am left alone