I know this has come up before but i am a bit of an abysmal failure when it comes to Dating, i try and be funny and confident and everything that women want but its not enough, i think its mostly down to looks tbh
sorry for being a downer but i am a huge big failure when it comes to love,
i was with my first gf 12 yrs or so and another girl for about a year off and on, the girl i was with for a year we fell out but i was talking to her tonight and she has a bf but still wants to meet up with me and hang out.
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Run as far as you can. … You will find someone who wants to be with you but this sounds like a recipe for disaster.
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nobody wants me @anon80629714
I hope u cheer up you’ll find someone eventually just be patient. I know you’ll feel a lot better soon. Bad night huh? I’ve had those.
Why don’t you try a paid dating site where the people are more serious about relationships?
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You will find someone … I know. Don’t lose hope. I just feel that if you looking for something serious don’t go down this route. If she will cheat for you she will cheat on you and you deserve way more.
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i try to put blame somewhere but i keep hitting walls,
i guess if i am destined to be single then who am i to complain?
i just feel a bit worthless as a human being, its the man job to be able to find a mate, it should be easy 
@GoldenRex i’ve tried, didnt work
@anon80629714 i hear you 
Are you being realistic with your expectations?
Like a woman your age, that’s not a supermodel?
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yes, i’m literally out of ideas, have tried doing nothing, waiting, but nothing happens.
its not just going to fall in my lap like i could be waiting forever
No wonder nothing is happening,
You’re not putting in the effort.
Get back on the sites and try to find a real connection,
Don’t just send generic posts to the hot girls.
Go outside and take a nice picture of yourself, rewrite your bio and get back in there.
i’ve done that but i got nothing 
i dont just message hot women bc i know they wouldnt be interested in me, i try and get somewhere in between my likes and dislikes in a woman
What are you going to do, just give up?
You have to keep trying.
This defeatist attitude is hurting you.
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i have to admit that this to me is a lot worse than sz, its worse being on my own
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I have same problem.Not even posibility for a date.
its not nice idk why women dont like me, i mean what more do they want?
It’s not you.Women can tell from a mile that something is wrong with you.And they are afraid of psychosis.I tried so many dating sites,but always the same.I’m afraid of being alone for years.
i try and hide it but my friend Laura said she could tell
Why don’t you try that site for people with mental illnesses?