I actually used to goto kemp town and freqeunt the gay bars altho not gay - cos i found the punters less threatening. I know its hard mate - esp. if your feeling anxious about it.
Yeah i never get any messages back. I just think i cant connect with people anymore.
Don’t give up just because of being emotional
Its an emotional rollercoaster and it’s a numbers game
I gave up just before meeting my husband and after 3 x 3 night stand so I was a wreck
He messaged me again a few months later on my phone *how close we were to meeting 3 months earlier and now it’s 12 years later
He has autism and doesn’t socialise… hes in circles i never would have encountered and was a virgin age 35
He’s kind, funny … a real diamond
I think I’m gonna delete my dating profiles. I’ve only sent 5-6 messages to girls, and have yet to receive a message back. Plus, the thought of going on a first date is giving me really bad anxiety. Maybe I’m just not ready to date…yet
I deleted my profiles recently its giving me too much anxiety. Take your time with that stuff, yea
yeah I think I’m going to, too. I might wait till I have an apartment/house until I’ll get back on the dating sites
Where do you live now. I’m in my family house but will be moving out soon.
I’m living with my parents for the time being. I’m starting a job next week, so hopefully I can save up for my own place. I figure if I tell a girl that im schizophrenic and still living with my parents, that’d be a dealbreaker
I guess it just boosts our confidence a bit if we feel more independent isn’t it…
And all the best with ur new job that’s great 
sure does. Now I just need to get my social skills back, and I might be set
thanks 
You’re welcome 
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