Joined a dating site

I actually used to goto kemp town and freqeunt the gay bars altho not gay - cos i found the punters less threatening. I know its hard mate - esp. if your feeling anxious about it.

Yeah i never get any messages back. I just think i cant connect with people anymore.

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Don’t give up just because of being emotional
Its an emotional rollercoaster and it’s a numbers game
I gave up just before meeting my husband and after 3 x 3 night stand so I was a wreck
He messaged me again a few months later on my phone *how close we were to meeting 3 months earlier and now it’s 12 years later

He has autism and doesn’t socialise… hes in circles i never would have encountered and was a virgin age 35

He’s kind, funny … a real diamond

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I think I’m gonna delete my dating profiles. I’ve only sent 5-6 messages to girls, and have yet to receive a message back. Plus, the thought of going on a first date is giving me really bad anxiety. Maybe I’m just not ready to date…yet

I deleted my profiles recently its giving me too much anxiety. Take your time with that stuff, yea

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yeah I think I’m going to, too. I might wait till I have an apartment/house until I’ll get back on the dating sites

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Where do you live now. I’m in my family house but will be moving out soon.

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I’m living with my parents for the time being. I’m starting a job next week, so hopefully I can save up for my own place. I figure if I tell a girl that im schizophrenic and still living with my parents, that’d be a dealbreaker

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I guess it just boosts our confidence a bit if we feel more independent isn’t it…
And all the best with ur new job that’s great :slight_smile:

sure does. Now I just need to get my social skills back, and I might be set

thanks :grinning:

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You’re welcome :slight_smile:

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