OK, am real saddened and scared to be left alone… I have this ill friend of mine, who was the last calling… but I talked to her a bit abruptly this time, I was having my problems too. So she kicked me out of her fb and left me totally…
Idk if recovery is possible without a friend?
Did you manage to get better without friends at all?
It’ll be hard yeah…
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sorry for your loss, i’m glad no-one has died though
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I won’t do it without her, idk… total loneliness now…
Idk if you were in the same situation, without friends at all… idk if it’s possible to get better like that?
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Maybe she’s upset and needs a break from your friendship. That doesn’t mean you can’t make amends. Hopefully you guys can become friends again in some time.
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it is possible to make up, and meet new friends but it requires effort.
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Yeah, I would preferred that she says it to me openly that she needs a break, I’ll understand this… but she throws me away once in every 2 months since an year and I think, that today she had enough totally…
Idk how I’ll do it without talking to no one at all… it’s possible? Or my sz will worsen?
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I think it’s healthy to communicate with friends/family/acquaintances/colleagues. Here you have buddy programs where volunteers link up with people in precarious situations. They then talk and do things together. Is there a place you can go like a clubhouse or an organization with volunteers that help or even a professional you could talk to?
Thanks for trying to help, but I had enough of the institutions…
Idk if it’s possible without friends…
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My best friend had no friends and was unable to work for 10 straight years. She got a pdoc, took her meds, and did a year long intensive DBT program for people with BPD. She now has lots of friends, she works full time for good pay, and she enjoys going out on dates. In other words, Yes! It is possible
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Oh, thanks if its Like that yeap 
tbh, I am probably not a good friend now. She is ill too in fact and doesn’t pardon my crisises… I can be a bpd too in fact yeap, one doc thought it of me… But I wonder if I’ll worsen without my last friend?
Idk what exactly causes the loneliness…
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People need relationships. That’s why you feel lonely if you have no friends. It’s perfectly normal. Don’t give up hope that you can make friends, because I’m the future you may be able. My friend has bipolar 1, borderline personality, anxiety and depression and yet 10 years after falling apart, she got help and is much better now. Don’t give up!
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OK, thanks. Am just sorry that I bug again, but I am scared, that my mi will worsen without her? Is it possible?
Your friend did these 10 years without talking to no one almost? 
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She talked to her mom
OK, I have my mother too. OK, anyway, enough on me. I’ll be alone from now… with my conversion disorder and the past, 20 years old isolation… that’s whats behind me, my isolation is a fact now and probably it made me worse. I’ve had nothing for these years. And now my brain is smashed probably, my body too.
Lots of health to you, I’ll pray that I won’t worsen 
You can salvage your friendship
Don’t give up hope.
If not you might be able to form new friendships
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Thanks my wave 
you’ve always supported me… maybe I’ll try to share more here from now then… I wonder if there’s other people here without friends at all… I’ve told you, I am damned scared that I’ll worsen without her.
But I am not ready for new friendships, I can’t even talk much now…
I still have my online ill boyfriend now, but we were sharing nicely with this girl… the girl friendship is needed too, yeap…
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If you’re not ready to make new friends, just remind yourself regularly that making friends is still possible.
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But is it a possibility to worsen without her calls and our talking? That’s my fear…
If you don’t reach out to others, like your mom, you could become too isolated and that could cause problems. But I don’t think not having friends makes you sicker. Just make sure to talk to family. And a therapist can help you through this rough time
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OK, thank you a lot, for the time, trying to reassure me too 
OK, I will have my mother, maybe my online bf and I’ll try to reach maybe my aunt or some old friendships on Facebook…
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