7 weeks ago, I told my friend I thought we needed a break because she hadn’t treated me well in a while and had been accusing me of thinking and saying things that I was absolutely not saying or thinking.
In her defense, she has untreated bipolar (she got a new pdoc and is lying so she doesn’t have to take a mood stabilizer. Instead, she got him to approve her for esketamine treatments for treatment resistant depression).
She also has borderline personality disorder.
I miss the good times but not the bad. I’m not sure what I should do
If she doesn’t treat you well i would leave her. I had a friend who kept asking me to pick him up, we only talk online now or hangout once or twice a year when my other friend picks him up.
Oh yeah, totally legit reason to be angry . As a matter of fact, Im blocking you for using it twice in that sentence. Next thing you know you may say “belly”, and I wont be putting up with that crap.
Is there maybe a way you can let her know that you can resume the friendship when she starts a mood stabilizer again? It Sounds like she needs to be on one and then she’s a good friend to you again.
I don’t know that I want to put a stipulation on the friendship like that. If I really want to be her friend, I feel like I should be able to accept her as she is. Although, that’s what’s causing me to avoid her now
. As a matter of fact, Im blocking you for using it twice in that sentence. Next thing you know you may say “belly”, and I wont be putting up with that crap.