I sooo wanted to get along with the neighbors

Now this. They try literally to control me. Where did I go wrong along the line that people can control me?

I have to put a complaint in with the town next week. The neighbours have a pet grooming business and we didn’t object to it when they applied for the license because the dogs were supposedly only being in their house and then leaving right away. I see from Facebook that they are now boarding animals for owners and there are seven dogs at their place this long weekend barking and snarling non-stop in the back yard. That was NOT part of their business permit! We are asking for it to be revoked entirely.

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Well, your neighbors will get what they deserve. Wish I could say the same about my neighbors.

What are your neighbors doing to you nick?

Be glad you don’t have our neighbors, they get into our house and take our food- bacon, chicken, peanut butter etc.
I see their kid left their toys again inside our house…x8.

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i got some problems too, i’m going to seek legal advice soon :frowning:

i should be allowed to have guests stay and it doesnt seem fair

I was living in an upstairs one room apartment that was over run with cockroaches. There were four other apartments on the upstairs of that building. This guy down the hall would crank his stereo at two o’clock in the morning. However, this guy thought the neighbors downstairs were hurting him terribly when they shut the front door of their apartment a little loudly. He would stomp on the floor and scream bloody murder every time they shut the door. Some people are just insane, and impossible to get along with.

I am lucky to have decent neighbors.
Couldn’t be happier.

If the building advertised to other tenants that there would be no guests, your having guests will stress others. Hell, it bothers me when people walk past my home on a public sidewalk. Next home will be back on an acreage.

idk what your talking about, its complicated so i’m going to get a lawyer lol

@77nick77 sup? :slight_smile:

Are you too nice? That’s actually a flaw, and people take advantage.
It’s ok to be “the jerk” sometimes, @77nick77. Other people take their fair share. You can take control back, push back, and they’re still in the wrong if they’ve been pushy.

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I’m talking about common decency.

If your rental or lease agreement specifies you have no guests and everyone has the same agreement, then your neighbours have a reasonable expectation that you will honour that agreement by NOT having guests. If you bring in guests in violation of your agreement, you may cause them stress and discover they are calling for legal help to deal with YOU.

Seriously dude, you are one of the more inconsiderate people I’ve ever met.

you dont know my circumstances so keep your nose out,

you are more inconsiderate than me, your post is inconsiderate imo

If you don’t want commentary on a situation, don’t post about it in a public forum. And then don’t complain about it when you get it.

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you are publicly criticising me, you pick on me for some reason idk why, i’m always a target on this site

Speaking of neighbours… We picked the remaining apples on our apple trees today. The folks in the area just come into our yard and help themselves. We know because we have it on video. I just shame the adults on Facebook now – I’ve stopped caring who I offend – we’re moving to a different town in less than a year. Repeat offenders have been sent to the RCMP. Our lovely neighbours kids have been frequent customers. After asking them to stop, I see the youngest child in the yard with the father. Son is holding a box while the father picks fruit. That one’s going to small claims court, presenting the video and asking for restitution of $100.

I hate being surrounded by stupid and inconsiderate people.

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Best answer. Thanks @Hedgehog. I am a little too nice sometimes. That’s the way I grew up but I caused some “mischief” as a teenager.

The guy directly above me is a crazy, 300 pound bully. I’ve been wrong with neighbors many times before, but the guy seems to be trying to exert some power which seems inappropriate to bug someone in their own home. I try to ignore him best I can but he listens to what’s happening in my unit and if he doesn’t like it he’ll start coughing and being rude and instead of walking normally it seems he deliberately stomps. He is home and in his room almost every time I’m ever in my room.

OK, now I’m just venting. Well, I’ve won before, maybe I’ll do it again. And my victories are more impressive than anyone else especially than my ex-roommates and this other guy because I do everything with 0 confidence. It’s easy for them to win but my victories are extremely hard won which makes them sweeter.

Thanks for letting me bend your ear @hedgehog. Have a nice day. And I am out and about myself in the city I grew up in and my day is OK. I’m going to visit my moms grave later and just enjoy being in this beautiful city. Time to put on Led Zeppelin to make the day even better.

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I keep it hi and bye with my neighbors and that’s it ! I don’t wanna have to talk to them every time I step out my apartment. I rather be a little anti social and rude then feeling like I gotta convo with these ppl then they would start asking personal questions and crap and I think they get the point I don’t wanna be bothered

hey @77nick77 sorry you have to put up with that, i think some people just naturally make a lot of noise :frowning: its not nice

The woman next door wanted to be friends when I moved in; she’s really nice. But she understands that I just want to be friendly and no further and as far as I know we are on good terms.

Unfortunately, the young women upstairs were laughing insanely two nights ago at me in my own apartment and from my own past experience, I know they think they can do it anytime. It’s kind of sad that they want to do that instead of getting along but I barely see them and I think they are the ones who are funnier than me.

Not a healthy environment for you, @77nick77. It’s not ok for you to be the sacrificial lamb of the complex.
Take care of yourself :heart:️
I hope you enjoyed visiting at your mom’s grave. I haven’t done that in years. Miss it.

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