my neighbours kind of ganged up on me about my plans for guests staying for a few weeks, they said that they didnt want strangers coming in and out of the close, its not fair bc i am not doing anything wrong and i have cleared it with the housing officer and he said it was ok as long as i’m not subletting so now i am really worried about what my neighbours think, i dont want to get into trouble with my neihbours so i am worrying about it,
on the other hand my friend and i are going to try to do some dog walking and maybe boarding, we will see how it turns out, i am a bit worried of the smell if i am looking after some small animals,
i am not subletting, i am letting guests stay but subletting starts at a 6 month period here and i would never let anyone stay for that long, the longest i have let someone stay for was a week.
but thanks @martinhersey1 do you mean follow your heart? because thats what i normally do, i’ll think on it and hope for a resolution
its just not a very good situation i dont want my neighbour to be scared of my guests but i dont think its any of her business what i do with my own home even if it is just a council house. i still have rights of my own but i just dont want to upset anyone.
that doesnt seem like a good idea in the circumstances as the person wasnt very friendly when she came to the door she said i could get thrown out and that she didnt thin i should have got given the flat. she keeps things all nicey nice but thats not the truth really
been there. At my last place, before they moved, the neighbors said I couldn’t have dogs because of some home owners assoc thing. well the home owners assoc they were talking about was for THEIR streets, I was on a different one. they acted nice about said it as against the rules, but oh? they didn’t want me to lose my dogs so I should find some other place to live. They moved after literally EVERYONE in the nghborhood told them to shove off (not always in those words)
I’m sorry that your neighbors are upsetting you. I really don’t have a good answer for you.
My mind is reminding me that Will Rogers said that good fences make good neighbors.
i think i need to mend a few fences but i dont want to stop what i am doing just to keep them happy i like what i am doing and i have been told by the main man that i am not doing anything wrong, its just a shame that they dont approve and i am worried that i fight might break out like a shouting fight bc i cant handle that mentally.