I am not enjoying this place much anymore

Whilst some criticism is often warranted it’s always better around here to be civil and supportive. Makes for a much more inclusive forum.

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Hey, everyone. Slow down! I think you all are great contributors here. I like @77nick77 sense of humor when I need a good laugh. @GoldenRex and @daze keep the honesty going and @anon90843118 you are always saying kind things. I see ebbs and flows here in the types of posts. Sometimes I’m not here for long but I do like coming here during the day to see how everyone is doing. People post here so often, that the least popular or bad posts disappear quickly. It’s all good, this forum wouldn’t be great without people checking in!

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Well I don’t understand what you are going through…all I can say is follow your heart and wait until you make a decision.

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There are a lot of new users I don’t know lately, which kind of puts me off. I shouldn’t react that way, it’s a good thing that more people are using the forum to cope with this illness. I guess I just got comfortable with the same dozen-2 dozen people.

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I have difficulty when people change their names. Once I get to know them, then I don’t know who I am talking too! It’s confusing.

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I’m going to start going to the creativity board.

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I enjoy the creativity part of the forum.

Lots of cool artwork and poems. :+1:

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I really like the forum. I just haven’t been on in a week or so because of depression. New faces throw me off, too. I always feel a little abandoned if I don’t see someone I’ve grown to like.

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I was wondering where you were. I like your happy hand! I’m glad you are checking in.

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I do enjoy being on the forum. I think my only problem with it though is that I am not using it 100% as a support forum. Don’t get me wrong I still make threads when I hit roadblocks and I try to support others with advice that helped me get better, but sometimes I feel like I use it as a bit of a chat room. I’m not sure if there is anything wrong with that, but I do feel a bit stupid for it for some reason.

sometimes when people feel broken jaded or incopmplete, they reach out to impress their ideals on others seeking attention companionship understanding or at the very least agreement. any forum you go on or just about any conversation you engauge in, your going to find the same its sociology 101. But rather than get upset and pushed away by it, look at it as an opportunity to restore the flow of things and impress reason justice and competence and empathy. Lord knnows sz’z dont possess empathy lol it comes with the diagnosis. But rather than let someone elsees diagnosis or thinking become yours create your own people will see it. Thgey will then judge and comment but you doing you is thew best thing that you can do for you and perhaps others. Be the light :star_struck:

its true butterflyy

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I enjoy being on the forum but I don’t like seeing shallow threads talking about people’s private parts.
I know I can’t be the only one.

Anyway…

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Not just here, but on other forums too that tends to throw me somewhat.

oh soz to hear that.
hope ya feeling better

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yea I think people do do that here and I personally think that is fine. chat is a form of support innit.

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I think I may have empathy it is just when I am stressed I kind of have an empathy expression block lol

yessss hahah

:bulb:
:leaves: :sweat_smile: footprints:

wish you a good day ahead how cool is it that I am talking to you all the way in Hawaai. very cool.

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I had to get that thing about my private parts off my chest it helped me I hope that was ok……….

but yea everyone is different

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yea I have noticed that too. I am ok with that myself. the more the merrier

I do prefer when people do not change their names though

what do you think of sz redditt?

I easily lose track with too many people changing their names. I was on Reddit for a couple of fairly short spells. I posted a few times on the sz subreddit . I think here is quite a lot better .

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