Do you think you will ever have a girlfriend or boyfriend?
This is my biggest problem, I can’t feel a thing.
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I don’t need one
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im not in a good place to date right now. but maybe in the future. really I blew it with a couple candidates when I was younger and haven’t got back into things for years now.
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I am texting back and forth with a girl from Match.com and she said something last night about playing pool with me.
At some point it sounds like I have a date lined up, and that makes me a bit nervous.
It’s so hard thinking up stuff to talk about.
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I go to night clubs…
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Never say never.
I’m not in a state right now where dating would do much for me, but in the future I might be more receptive.
I am on Tinder, looking for potential sparks, but it hasn’t yielded any results so far.
I did talk a little with a girl I liked there, but it was always me initating contact. I stopped doing that to test if she’d initiate, and the conversations completely died out. Guess she wasn’t interested.
The last date I was on ended badly, so I’m a bit wary of trying again.
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Maybe in time,
Just not in the right state atm.
I want to but Im scared. Not sure how it will go
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I want a girlfriend but I would be very nervous about dating. Just put myself on nolongerlonely but other dating sounds like a minefield for me.
I don’t know, maybe… Now i’m trying to keep my mind stable
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I can honestly say “no”.
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If this does not work out, (im not trying to be negative, just trying to be rational), i will probably not date again as it was exhausting experience. really not healthy for me because i met a heck a lot of idiots.
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I’ll go on the dating scene once my arthritis is stabilized, and my thought broadcasting is 95-100% stopped.
I’ve got a lot to offer!
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I dont think im good relationship material and tbh the guys i met around my age werent good relationship material either. Im also done with fighting to have my boundaries respected every first or second date.
I kind of like my ex, but i decided im too troubled to date. Guys often seem to think im a good partner on first sight, but i come with such a shitload of hidden issues that i currently dont want to burden another person with that. 
Doesnt seem fair.
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I had one solid girlfriend before I got ill, and I wish I was still with her.
I don’t think I’ll date in the immediate future – I’m broke, no job, live with my parents, and have no friends. A girl worth dating won’t like that combo
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I’ve had dates, girlfriends and even briefly was married, but it’s been a while. The marriage was ten years ago, lasted only six months.
I stopped dating in mid-2016 because I realized I was not in a good place mentally.
I currently do not date because I feel like I am not in a good enough place financially. I’m rather poor, and I’m not going to date unless I can afford to take a woman out to dinner.
Hopefully these things will change soon, but we’ll see.
Not dating is not a big deal to me. I miss sex, but I’ve become used to abstinence, so it’s no longer a big deal, either.
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I didn’t think I’d ever date, but now I’m married. Life is unpredictable. If dating is something you want in your life, it’s possible. I needed to spend a long time working on myself and learning how to be a good partner before actually finding someone who wanted to be with me. But I got there, in the end.
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No will live out my day single
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Anyone can date…just because you have something to work with doesn’t mean you have to work with it…
Do you…
I’m at the track at the gym about to run but got saddled with depression just now and can’t even get up. Gonna try shooting some hoops then get started, crazy thing is I was almost completely sane just 30 min ago, no paranoia or anything. Now I’m paranoid AF. There is a mountain and then a molehill then another mountain. I’m gonna search abt the long term course of affective stuff.
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Both men and women have hurt me so very badly over my entire life that there is absolutely no hope of my ever again trusting anyone enough to form another romantic relationship. Period. From here on out, I am absolutely closed to relationships and sex.
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