My mom told me to find a date at our church, she said church girls are more modest and will accept a man who is not able to work. Is this true? I told her why not date a women who is on welfare, she said no she wants me to date a women who is working full time and who owns a house. A family friend women asked me to go out have a coffee with her but i stressed and said no. I kinda like her but shes 5yrs older than me. She approached me many times trying to date me and I know she is single. I told my mom I don’t want kids she told me to date older who can’t have kids but I don’t want older women. At what age women can’t have kids? Is there 30y.o. women who don’t want kids how to find them. I guess online dating?
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Dude why turn down the family friend???
I don’t get that , 
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I got stressed lol
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And I think you can find a woman
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You know I heard is your chances of finding a female go way up once you are all dating someone but when you’re single it’s very hard
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Religious people scare me lol. I’d prefer to not date a religious woman from church.
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I am undecided about having kids, idk if they will get sz, my sz was horrible and dangerous, I don’t like taking risks. If one parent has sz the chance is 16% and if both parents have it 50%, if both parents dont have sz 0.3%
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I wouldnt have kids they are stressful and a full time job in itself
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Um. Not trying to be mean, but you have really been struggling with negs. This woman needs to work all day then come home and cook meals and also do all of the laundry and housework while you vape and game?
I don’t like your odds.
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I’m not having any kids nor am I dating. I can’t work or take care of myself. It’s what it is. Nothing to do about it.
Besides, relationships are overrated. The only thing that’s appealing is sex but I can take care of myself.
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The sex isn’t that big. It’s having someone to share with that is the best part for me.
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I am trying bumble and tinder rn, nothing interests me, I don’t like tattoos, piercings, animals, horror movies, smoking, drinking, etc it seems no women interest me
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Sex is overrated.
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I think a women will help my negative symptoms lol it will bring me out of this depression
@anon67051439 - Do I remember correctly you saying you don’t feel emotions? I think it would be difficult to find a woman/love if you don’t feel emotions.
Do you want love, or just sex?
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A bit. It can also make them worse.
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I will try my best, if it doesn’t work I won’t lose anything, i will just have good time
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If this women accepts you after all this, then she a keeper.
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A relationship or marriage is still a possibility with me.
I realize if you have someone who accepts you also find out all the other people involved in their life.
Find out who that person has lifelong relationships with regardless of if you were in their life.
Maybe you will be fine with someone and they are ok with you but those who are also in their life might cause a lot of stress with their opinions of you. And also those in your life might also have unwanted opinions about your partner.
Somtimes this conflict ruins or stresses love between two poeple.
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I tried to be less picky liked many profiles now I got anxiety I feel like closing my accounts to not get matches its addicting like porn lol a gf won’t cure my negative symptoms I won’t magically be able to work and be happy lol
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