I don’t know if I should date again. I denied a 38y.o. women, she asked me to go have a coffee with her. I am 33. My last gf left me because I had no money and kept quitting jobs after two weeks. We were together for 5yrs. We met in a nightclub. I don’t drink anymore or smoke weed. I felt like one women at Starbucks was into me, she wanted to talk and approached me very close kept looking at me smiling but I ran away lol I tried online dating back in 2020, was a bad experience I only used for a few days. I talked to like 4 women. Some were racist said they won’t date my race.
I don’t think I can date unless I get a job as I don’t want to take advantage of the women. It was unfair when my gf worked but I didn’t work.
It’s nit about money, but nobody wants to suffer economically because they have to support someone. They could find someone else who can make life better for them. In this society there is no strong bond like both ancestral members same religion or tribe or whatever. People have become meaningless and just worried about basic needs
You should at least try to get disability again if your unable to work so you can better support yourself, help your family, etc and maybe a girl wont care if your on disability as long as you can help pay for things but im single too so i understand what your going through my last girlfriend was 14 years ago i had a chance to have a girlfriend real recently but declined because i dont have the energy to spend time with her and the whole idea just stressed me out lol