I always wondered this because I’m too scared to ask girls out.
i don’t think you will unless you really want to. It can def be harder depending on your condition…but if you don’t want to get married and have kids for the wrong reasons then you should try to do something about it. It really is kinda based on your personality sorta…but i hope you don’t have big fears of things.
Same here. I don’t know.
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Same here
I am on same boat as u
Negative symptoms makes it hard…
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Well, I was told women don’t like smokers.
Most likely I’ll be single till I die and I accept that outcome.
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well there are different women out there…there are a lot of picky women also. keep in mind you get to decide also…its not a one way street
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i think if some of you have intense fear of things based on your condition you should talk to your dr’s about that. there has to be something…not one method works for all
Survival of the Fittest. Wealthy men deserve beautiful women. A relationship is a two-way street which is mutual.
deserve? if you really want to believe that…i sorta had higher standards before but i don’t even consider the women in the ms universe beautiful. Now its based on other things but like i said, it shouldn’t be for the wrong reasons.
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@PuRpOs3 Well, you did say some women are picky and that is true. Wealthy men and beautiful women have high standards and we as the underclass don’t have the ability to raise that bar so high.
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right, and you don’t really have to. now ive been out of the dating scene for the longest now…maymbe things are a little different. i don’t feel down about it though, because i made the choice for certain reasons…not out of fear. you don’t have to raise the bar so high, i know it sounds korny but beauty comes from within and it may sound lovey dovey but it wont sound korny when you actually understand the person and have kids. you wont find it “raising the bar high”. you would’ve prolly just realized you never even raised any bar at all…
@PuRpOs3 I purposefully made a choice to be out of the dating scene. Maybe in my 20s I didn’t consider this but now that I am older I know what to expect. Are you able to pass on this mental illness to your kids?
to be honest I’m not 100% sure of my diagnoses(just made a post recent bout misdiagnoses) so I’m not sure what to expect. nobody in my family has what i have…only 1 case of alzheimers at age 80++ so i dunno…but IF its 100% true what i have…its still only a possibility that it can be passed on. Now if i don’t want to be selfish…if i capable of supporting a child i would only have 1 and limit 1 and not take the risk. I know what you mean…that’s not one of my concerns though. What i saw is some people aren’t dating or are single cause of fear not cause of what you just asked me now. that’s why i said not for the wrong reasons…
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Have you tried online dating?
I have to be honest. It just baffles me that you don’t feel confident around girls. You’re a very good-looking dude, and you seem to possess decent social skills. Did you have a bad experience at some point? It just seems like you would have a very easy time finding girls who are interested in you.
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Same here man and it sucks
I agree,
You are very good looking, you’re in school, and you do seem to have good social skills,
Women are definitely interested in you.
If you feel weird starting a conversation,
Try the online thing.
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If I was interested in getting into a relationship I’d definately try internet dating through one of the modern, popular sites.
Just seems like the easy way to go. Talk to people who are matched is some respects. It’s a little bit of screening but I’d definately give it a go. Take it at your own pace and just do it!
Even an old divorcee like me never says never. You just never know when people drop into your life. Sure I don’t get involved in many situations where you can impress women but you just never know!
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Wealthy man I know treated his wife like garbage. And she was beautiful. He now has loads of women on the side. Who knows what kind of STD he may have. Any logical beautiful woman would stray clear
On a side note my mum who cleans for him told me he was saying “I have everything and I’m so unhappy”
My simple reply was this “ nope he doesn’t he has no principles or morals so he does not have everything”
No principles. No morals = no honour.
Don’t all women seek honour in a man ? I know i do.
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