What is the thing that attracts women about men?

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I found that there are certain things in man that woman recognize as attractive.Gotta friend,everybody tells me he is handsome,but I don’t find it like that.Woman are all around him,even asking for a number,or to be intimate with them.It’s true.Then I found my self confused,because I attract women for example,on the phone,I have deep soothing voice,but nothing in real life.What’s that thing that attracts women.Is it charisma?What is essential thing that man must have to “qualify”?Obviesly I’ve lost it.

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I like somebody with a sense of humor, a quiet confidence, and a kind heart.

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Yes,confidence :neutral_face:

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I tend to go for the quieter types who might take some coaxing to come out of their shell. I enjoy being the person to get to know them where other people might pass them by. I like silliness, a good sense of humor, compassion, honesty, hard work- all of those things draw me in.

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I know, I don’t have it either. :confused:

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All that you said is about someone who is normal.What about compassion.Does it works.Like when you admit you are ill.Girls usually find that revolting.

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I don’t. I think that MY best quality is compassion. I genuinely feel for people. So when someone says they are ill, I try to sympathize. I don’t judge (I think), and I try to be there for them if I know them well enough to offer that.

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But not to be intimate with that person.My skin.

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What do you mean?

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If you are normal,and someone tells you he’s mental,would you easilly pass that and be intimate with that person(have sex with ill boy)

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Humble as opposed to over confident.
Self sufficient.
Articulate.

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Being mentally ill wouldn’t deter me. A lack of commitment would. :wink:

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Believe me it’s harder for men who are sick to find companion then women.Even normal men wouldn’t mind woman’s state of mind.I wouldn’t.

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I feel like if I had to date again (and thank goodness I don’t!), I wouldn’t do well. I’m too insecure. I don’t like the way I look, so I’d never be comfortable undressing in front of somebody if I ever got to that point. I’m also annoying, silly, clingy…

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One time I met neighbor girl and we walked afternoon we met.We spoke well,until my other neighbor girl told her i am mental.The girl i walked with remained being polite with me,but i new nothing will be there.We never walked again.

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I would admittedly wait to tell someone my diagnosis. I’m not saying be dishonest; I’m just recommending that you let them get to know you so that they can see that you aren’t a stereotype to be frightened of.

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If I were to become single again and wanted to find a man the main thing I would look for is someone who is self reliant. I don’t want to tend to someone. I’m not the type of person who wants to take care of a man. I don’t want to do his cooking and cleaning and run the household. I don’t want to guess what he needs to make him happy. Nor do I want someone tending to me. I think we should do our own stuff and tend to our own emotions. If I want something I will ask and I expect the other person to be assertive enough to do the same. None of the mind reading crap that gets on my nerves.

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Good answer! I am needy, so I need a guy who isn’t.

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Tried that also.It ended in break of internet conversation because I waited,and when i told her psychosys,after two days of silence she told me it was bomb for her.

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Don’t give up. Try again with the next girl, same method.

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