If you live in an apartment and you don’t like your neighbor you share a wall with or a ceiling, do you laugh at the person through the walls. I mean really subtly. just so they wonder if it’s really happening? If you do, do you do it constantly? Just to make them mad or drive them crazy? Is this what women do?
I doubt some one would waste their time laughing against a wall or ceiling intentionally, maybe she is on the phone?
I’m surprised this wasn’t 5 paragraphs from you.
umm, no, if it’s a problem happening I take it to them directly.
but I’ve been out of apartment living for a long time now.
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No, but I swear the dude in the apartment next to us, we share a living room wall (and kitchen), every time I have any sound on at all he coughs so ■■■■■■■ loud the entire time. When I’m out here just on my phone he doesn’t cough.
And the bedrooms are attached to the living room, so it’s not like my ■■■■ is loud. I’m not going to risk waking up Little LED that is asleep less than 15 feet away from me.
It’s really annoying. Like, I can’t tell if he’s doing it just to ■■■■ with me, or if he’s upset or something? I don’t know. But I’m pretty sure they hate us anyways, so I’m trying to not let it get to me.
Hey @77nick77, I would never do something like that.
I think a person would have to be really twisted to sit there and do that, just to drive someone up the wall. I guess if it were happening that’s a lot of time they would invest in doing something just to irritate you subtly. Who’s got time for that?
Most people, if they really want to upset you would probably do something worse and more obvious, like key your car.
I’m sorry you’re experiencing this. I hope today is a better day.
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No one, regardless of gender, drives a personal vendetta against someone by laughing in their apartment all day.
It is most likely just your paranoia and the sz tendency to jump to conclusions.
Try to calm down and not take it personal, she’s not doing it to mess with you, I guarantee 100% percent
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Can you get some loud white noise machines? Something that’s easily ignored but loud enough to not really hear through the walls?
What you describe verges on an invasion of privacy. People have the right to be left alone in the privacy of their own homes. Of course, it can be hard to differentiate between incidental noise and intentional harassment. But you have a right to object to even incidental noise if it is unreasonable, like if someone is jamming their music full blast at 2:00 am.
Maybe trying laughing back all day around your apartment. @77nick77 
No, I have never done that. I don’t think anybody would ever do that.
Are you experiencing this? It’s likely a hallucination and paranoia.
When I was in psychosis the first time I blasted rap music and freestyled cause I thought I was a famous musician and the record company would record me from my computer. I remember people yelling and banging on my walls.
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