I can imagine being a guy and enjoying thinking sexual thoughts whilst talking with an attractive nice lady, if she seems OK with it lol.
I feel its creepy to me if I told a guy I really have absolutely no interest in him, and I have a bf,
And he still thinks sexual thoughts of me, whilst I talk with him
Unless he truly can’t control it. And even apologises, if he wants.
But idk maybe I’m in the wrong??
I think relationships these days are so hard to navigate
My opinion is a lot of people treat others like mere accessories
So hard to find good people
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People are allowed to think what they want.
From reading this thread,
It seems you want to confirm men are thinking about you sexually.
Word,
A lot of people will have sex with people they don’t consider a 10/10.
Like everyone.
Trying to build your self esteem based on how other people think is a bad strategy.
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Wtf you are crazy lol
Were all crazy here.
That doesn’t mean I’m wrong.
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This is so twisted I’m not even gonna bother.
I don’t really understand why you are telling me the obvious
I thought you weren’t going to bother.
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Sorry I don’t mean to sound abrasive, but that wasn’t the reason for this thread. I was curious for a different reason. But it’s true shouldn’t build my self esteem on what ppl think. 
Thanks for reminding me, I appreciate that. 
It just seems that you seek approval from men in any way.
You’re going to have to separate men from your opinion of yourself.
You are worthy by yourself.
You don’t need someone to tell you.
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It’s kind of hard to explain from my perspective because I’m technically middle aged, but even if I see a very sexy woman (or at least what I find sexy) I’ll check her out, but I won’t be like thinking of having sex with her in the middle of Walmart. LOL.
Or really anywhere for that matter.
I save those thoughts for when I get home.
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I lived somewhere. This man helped me with my cart once, when the elevator was out. Months later, I saw him in the lobby, and developed a huge crush on him. Once when I saw him across from the parking lot, he said; Your welcome! I think it was because he knew he turned me on. Later, I asked him what he meant. He said he didn’t remember.
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I don’t think around other people, I find it rude. Thinking sexual thoughts of somebody I’m talking with sounds like rudeness on steroids to me. I can be sexually attracted to an attractive lady but thinking actual thoughts or fantasizing about it in her presence sounds like the peak of rudeness in my mind. I think I would hear professor Oak in my head saying “there’s a time and place for everything, but not now.” if I had an inkling to do something like that.
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Yeah, that article is so bogus. I have had a female freind like 10 years who I have no interest in that way.
If you look at the survey it’s a sampling of 88 young men and woman. Yeah, if you’re an 18 year old horndog male maybe not as easily, but I had some female freinds when I was young.
The sampling size is also too small.
Bunch of nonsense considering I have successfully fought my friend off for 10 years without losing the friendship.
“Researchers” , bleh. Just a bunch people handing questioners to young people barely out from being juveniles, imo.
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With SZ and my delusions of thought broadcasting and telepathy I think my thoughts are known to whoever. Yes I think sexual things and I think the person is reacting to them telepathically.
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*waiting for the ‘When women see an attractive man’ thread/post!
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