When men see an attractive lady

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And befriend her

I know it’s maybe different for different men

How about you?

Do you think sexual thoughts when talking to her?

I’m a woman.

I don’t. But that might be because of my low self confidence.

And I barely talk to ppl atm.

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Not neccesarily.

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I ask because I wonder if some men can’t help it.

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Lol.

ALL men can’t help it.

They’ve done the research.

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Well, there are people with very low values in regards to others.

There also people so extemely socially awkward that just couldn’t help it.

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What do you mean?

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Thankyou this is also useful.

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I really need to get clued up that’s why I did this thread lol.

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Extremely biased and low participarion rate.

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But so true ! :rofl:

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Mostly not. I’m good at compartmentalizing.

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There are people (in this case men) with low regard for others (ex. Engaging with a friend’s girlfriend, considering that every woman want his dick, trying actively to sleep with everyone etc.). Could be a personality trait, or a period.

It can even be not a 0 or a 100, but a degree.

There are also people (in this case men) that are so unsocialized, that would see whatever attempt to engage in friendship with something more.

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Lol 15charcters

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OK so they think sexual thoughts when talking to an attractive lady cos they think they’ll never get sex or doubt it??

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No, it’s cuz they just can’t help it

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OK thanks. 15charcters lol

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I look at ladies sexually usually. It’s something I don’t like but I have to except. I don’t think I would sleep with somebody’s girl/wife but I can’t help seeing some girls sexually.

I just wish I could get a girl !!

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I don’t agree with this. I have two female friends, and our relationship is clarified as being friends.

Sure a person can have a odd sexual thought with friends sometimes too, but you let it go, otherwise it wouldn’t be possible to be friends.

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The awkwardness is also a degree. People are not 0 or 100 in that ■■■■

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@Zoe as @anon31960475 says, there’s a degree of neediness as well.

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