I have been stable for maybe three years now and I just graduated from college this summer. That means I’m about to interact with guys in the real world, not just in mostly silent classrooms.
I need all of you information about guys. I mean all of it. I have a fiancee but he’s very individualistic. Most men seem like they can be led around by the nose to me (C can’t, so that’s the foundation for my belief he is different).
I know about the they only want sex, sex holds no emotional connotations for men, that looks count more than anything else, but that’s about it. Besides working with them there is always the chance that I might end up with a single friend someday and I want to help her find someone. Because I like sticking my nose in places it doesn’t belong.
I don’t mean to be offensive to the guys on here and I realize I am being just that and I’m sorry. I figure if I let these things out someone can point out where I’m wrong and we can all move together down the road to better understanding instead of my just being politically correct and trusting guys about as far as I can spit a rat. I want to understand I really do. Don’t worry though. I know women are no saints. I’m asking you guys because even though I don’t even know your names I trust you more than any guy I know except four. C, C’s best friend D, my therapist, and L’s (one of my best friend’s) boyfriend. I don’t know L’s boyfriend at all really I just like the way he treats her and I know she wouldn’t tolerate someone who was untrustworthy.
Just assume I know nothing.
Yes I have daddy issues.
Especially @SurprisedJ and @mortimermouse because you two seem like opposite ends of the spectrum.