As we know, women are 25% of the dating apps population.
We also know how overwhelming a fine gentleman can be, as doccumented in various rock concerts (women cannot resist the urge to throw their underwears to the stage)
Studies affirm that women go completely crazy for about 10% of the male population in dating apps.
I think it’s okay for any genders to notice attractive people. I have an extensive list of hot male actors. My hubby has a list of hot female actresses. The difference is whether or not you’d actually sleep with them while with a partner. I’d draw the line at that unless I guess it was discussed and agreed upon by the other partner. As a married person I think it’s okay to recognize beauty in any form. Not wanting what you already have is unhealthy as is wanting something you can never obtain.