Whats your attitude toward overweight women?

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If a person thinks lesser of you because of your weight, why should you care? Are they even worth it. I’m seriously overweight because of my meds.

I admit, It matters to me if a person is healthy or not because I don’t want people to be unhealthy. If I like a person it is important they stick around so I can get as much time with them as possible. But if a person is wonderfully curvaceous but in good health, then it shouldn’t matter.

But either way a person should never be made to feel shame for their weight.

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overweight women are like a glass of water.

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Ok i see. But i am on the border of healthy too. Me too i have lots of avolition and i suffer still too much in order to think of my look often. I have to manage my head in priority i find. But i asked this question cause some people have seen me changing fastly from thin to overweight and some of them made me remarks. i care less now too.

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Mariah carey was my first celebrity crush when I was a teen.

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@Anna1 They shouldn’t’ being making remarks like that. That is an absolutely horrible and insensitive thing to do. And you shouldn’t listen to them. Don’t give them that power over you. You are great and there is nothing wrong with you.

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If they were on zyprexa then they would get more weight too.

It’s not our fault we gain weight, it’s not like we eat hundreds of burgers every day, we’re not greedy.

More the opposite you say you often have one meal a day, me too, cos I’m scared of putting on more weight.

You look fine Anna in the pic you posted, in fact you look very nice.

C U :stuck_out_tongue:

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Women are like roads, they’re more fun to ride on when they have lots of curves.

:blush:

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I’ve carried on romantic relationships with “overweight” women, so, I guess it does not matter much to me. With me, it all depends on chemistry.

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some people love obese ladies :slight_smile:
especially from countries other than us and Europe
be self confident
do you know how much i weight ??
i am 134 kggg i am trying to lose weight over long term year or two years
i am searching seriously in this field

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I’ve been thin, and I’ve been overweight, and right now, I’m just average. The only time I give any thought to someone’s weight is if they are morbidly obese- like on the TV shows about people going through gastric bypass surgery and trying to turn their lives around. No matter what I weighed, no one has ever really found me attractive. I don’t think weight made a difference for me.

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Used to be very judgey… Prided myself on thinking that because I made an effort to spend more time caring for my body and ate really well, that everybody that didn’t do the same was just lazy. Moved and haven’t been able to re-establish those good habits- gained almost 30 pounds in three years… I find myself more empathetic to other overweight women now, knowing they might be going through something that’s none of my business and maybe they’re doing it alone, too.

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My mother was overweight, and I was very sensitive to it growing up. I stood up for kids who were picked on for their weight. A kid mooed at a girl when I was in 7th grade, so I kneed him where it counts. I hated that kind of meanness.

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me and Angie are both overweight…Angie has been putting on some weight because I think she’s nervous about getting a job but I don’t mind…we don’t have a sexual relationship anyways…

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I am neutral towards overweight women. I don’t have sex anymore anyway.

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I wish my husband could love me fat. He only loves me when I’m thin

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Yeah when I tried another site. They said oink,oink, you don’t belong here!needed to let go but I went beastmode

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I have seen overweight men and woman that I find gorgeous.

My mum also used to tell me I am fat when I was on olanzapine.
When I was a size 12 she still thought I was fat because my normal size is weighing around 50kg size 8.

I told her I’m curvy but she did not agree and said I’m fat.

Some big woman are firm and have no jigglies .
I have jigglies even when I am slim.

My brothers wife really rocks her curves and she is not fat but curvy and can be rather stunning .

Switching to latuda made me lose a bit and so did it help when my bf locked and hid cakes :birthday: from me.

I am at the moment between a size 8 and 10.

I was down to 51kg a couple weeks ago but am now back up to 55kg which happened in a matter of four days binge eating of my partners fathers leftover birthday cake he gave to us.

I could not resist it.

My man has a big belly but is sexy and stunning and great.

I am naturally rather slim but not on meds but I do not have big breast.

My boyfriend is a boob man and thinks my boobs are too small.

I do not fill a a cup so they are tiny tits.

My man might rather a fat woman asking as she has big tits

He is not happy with my tits and barely touches them not often.

We had a dinner with two dangerously obese woman with big tits and his friend started saying how ugly tiny tits are clearly talking about referring to me.

He went in at how disgustingly ugly small tits are and how he loves them huge.

The woman and my partner did not say a word to defend me .

I thought it was incredibly rude and disrespectful and I stood up and said “I’m ready to leave” and walked out the door.

My boyfriend got angry with me not his mate and I ended up having to apolagise to THEM …
And give them a gift to keep the peace.
But Thereey were in the wrong not me.

I moved interstate where I know no one to be with my man and his friends have not been easy for me to be around.

My man is a biiig boob man and I might be saving up to get a breast enlargement .

He can not afford to pay and neither can I but I’m saving up for it and he isn’t.

He smokes and drinks alcohol and I don’t.

I have a sweet tooth.

There are some beautiful chubby chicks and men.

In men I might not be keen on some anorexic looks if there’s nothing to hold on too.

My boyfriends tits fit my hands but he doesn’t seem to like me holding them .

His tits might be bigger than mine.

I have other things to save up for such as for my neigh and vet visits and paddock etc

She is more important to me than getting tits to please my man.

I was going to go Ferrell super natural no modifications etc but changed my mind and will modify my body.
I have tattoos now etc

The important thing might be how the individual feels about there body and what they are ok with.

There are health concerns to think of too .

My cousin is a little chubby but she is so gorgeous and cute .

I have had muscly men too.

That was ages ago.

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I prefer personally to not be overweight because I feel better when I am not fat.

Even when I was 73kg I still had tiny tits.

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Good Wishes to us and our bodies and may they be loved and appreciated.

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I think weight is all relative and that it’s about health and happiness over the number itself. I’m thick and have been for a while. Sure, I’d like to be a 95-100lb pixie, but I don’t think that would actually solve my image problems and then I would probably just continue to strive for a “perfect” that I can’t have because I’ve never been happy with my body due to dysphoria. It’s about self-love and doing what’s best for oneself.

I also like my men a little on the heavy side as well. :blush: Softer cuddles.

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