Actually my situation little complex .my problem is my sister in laws family.they 3 person.husband wife and child.my sister in laws husband totally insane.he talking about jinns(some kind of islamic demon) that holding up during his sleep and jinns are talking to him.he is also very much paranoid and hateful person.me and my sister n law a
İs also observed some pschopatic tendecy to others especialy toward my sister in law.he is envious towards to me and my wife(we are both working in moderately good businesses and earning moderately good money for turkey standarts).he very manipulative person.my sister in law and her daughter in very bad situation because of his pschological manipulations.my sister in laws always smoke and doing knitting.her daughter has both pschological and physical problems(she has severe cognitive decline due to improper and poor feeding)their daughter always think she is creep and adore one gothic figure on adams family.she is also very passive aggresive hate towards me.she totally doesn t like me.now my sister in law and his husband beginning stage of divorce and my sister in law and their daughter living with my wife.( m not in this house yet i will move on after i marry)in normal conditions i don t really care about their situation.its not my business but they are living in same place with my wife for now.i m really worried about their situation.( im afraid that she( their daughter)will make up anything that she will to harm me)thats why i told my wife that if she(their daughter) not seen by any pedagogue or pdoc and not diagnosed properly i will not marry with her .my question is is my reaction proper thing to do.or am i overreacting.thanks in advance.
A difficult situation. You’re both working and don’t need a lot of stress. If they can’t live separately from you, probably not unreasonable.
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İ don t easily get paranoid but she is (their daughter) pschologically messed up and totally unpredictable and when i think about catastrophic scenarios about me(thinking worst of the worst) really scary things going on.what if she misunderstood my attitude towards her(she has severe cognitive decline plus severe pschological traumas from his dad and totally unpredictable).its really tough situation
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