I define success is as getting what you want in life
You have to sculpt your dreams
Focus motivation discipline perseverance
To stop craving…
To not need to measure your own success by other people’s standards and measures. To not feel the need to compare.
Financial success is not necessarily success.
Success is when you achieve your goals. Even small. If you don’t achieve nothing you are unsuccessful
Successful in video games, successful in sport. Successful in family relationships successful in love
Success is whatever makes you happy in life, it does not have to mean being rich and famous
I am mid range successful
Happyness is what’s make you happy in life success is different
If winning is your goal! Is that necessarily success?
How about not feeling the competition? Not playing the game, is that not a success?
Happyness is also goal and can be achieved
Depends on what you desire
If you lived a happy life and were content you were successful
Craving, attachment and desire are roots of unhappiness. You can’t win that way.
But if you feel you lack something to be content. You need inspiration drive for life. Some goal seeking can be rewarding
Only momentarily. And then you crave something else! Never satisfied.
You always want something. It’s natural. Even wanting to live eat… Desire and seeking something good will bring you happiness
When you achieve something with hard work you are satisfied
I agree with the comparison thing. Less comparison equals more happiness.
It’s just so hard to do though!!! Any tips?
Maybe it just takes practice of telling urself don’t compare its not healthy
Comparison is ok… Without comparison we would not know what’s good and what’s bad in life