Was she actually seeing and having a relationship with all these people, or merely liking them on the internet ? If the latter what is the problem with an older woman getting on with younger people ?
I know we had a falling out at one time but as far as I knew that had cleared up. Of course I only know what she said to me by emails and pms. I accept it’'s possible for someone to be nice to you directly while bad mouthing you to others. If that had been the case though I would have hoped someone would have had the decency and integrity to say " she’s bad mouthing you".
I don’t want to get into the sordid details but yeah it was more than liking on the Internet.
I didn’t know you at the time any more than a random name on the forum and I bought into what she was saying. Over time I figured it wasn’t worth bringing up.
I’m gonna leave it here. I don’t like dredging up garbage like this, I feel dirty even writing about her.
There was a predatory aspect to her behaviour in that she was only seeking out males with mental illness. The ones she chased hardest could all be described as cognitively impaired from what I saw them posting. It was ugly and it extended into the world beyond the boards. And that’s all I want to say other than I am glad she is gone.
Yeah tourist perverts killed it for us. Chat was a great addition to this website.
Two problems. Brian Chicko didn’t trust schizophrenics cause they had breakdowns so he gave the keys to social perverts who used the website to troll for dates. Dont’ get me wrong. I married a girl I met on the old chat site and numerous relationships sprang up but we were just punters. We weren’t tourists ( people who don’t have schizophrenia but hang around schizophrenic sites…looking for dates is the lowest of the low!) and we just existed that is the problem!
Seriously. I campaigned long and hard for people who are schizophrenic to be in charge of the chatspace but I was ignored like all the users and made to feel like ■■■■ because we didn’t want to sleep with either of the chat moderators!
Bring back chat! and bring in schizophrenic moderators. And lets get rid of these people who hang around this website who don’t have schizophrenia…Parents excepted…( siblings etc ok but stop preying on us sufferers!)