Unlucky in Love

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I was with a girl for a long time from about 2003- 2016 until we parted ways and unfortunately died of cancer a year ago almost to the day, the time i spent with her was very good, she meant a lot to me and we were still really good friends after we split, we still met for coffee ad things,

A few years ago i met another girl and we tried to make it work but we had trouble and fell out a lot, so we have been off and on :frowning: but now its for good bc she is pretty toxic for me,

Now i am once a gain single and if it weren’t for my little dog i’d have no company,

I wish i had met a good woman by now, I have plans but its not for me to make up plans, it has already been planned out, i am just hoping that a good woman is part of the plan that has always been written for me,

Please God Find me a Good woman :frowning: I pray :frowning: :pray:

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Praying for a woman isn’t going to do anything.

You need to get yourself out there if you want to meet someone.

I think you should stay single a while and get yourself sorted out with this dog before you try to start dating again.

Usually when you’re happy single, it happens and you meet someone.

Desperation is not sexy.

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I have been so lucky in love. I have had the pleasure of having some wonderful men in my life who have loved me and I’ve learned a lot from.

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I’m not desperate, i just hope and pray for a nice woman, nothing wrong with that

I hear you with the dog thing though

@Leaf i am glad you have been blessed with good men in your life

it is a lot easier for women most of the time, they don’t really need to try, men are surplus to requirements now i guess, lot more extreme feminists now i guess lol

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It wasn’t easy. It was a lot of hard work. Relationships take effort. Finding a match takes effort, even for women. You have to turn down a lot of creeps to find a decent person. And it’s hard to put yourself out there.

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I think there is something about me that puts women off and idk what it is :frowning:

Like i’ve been rying to stick out from the crowd but it never works

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Are you genuine?

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yeah, i’m waiting for the ideal partner to come along, i dont lie, cheat, i like a laugh and i want to Give my love, i have a lot of love to give

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Then it’s just a matter of time. Don’t give up hope. The right woman will come along. Just be genuine so you get the right one. If you are fake you’ll get the wrong woman and you’ll have a mess on your hands.

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Be, and not seem.

Ralph Waldo Emerson

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How are you blaming feminists for you being single?

Also,

What kind of requirements are you talking about?

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i was genuine with this girl and it was still a mess

its a good quote but i do try to do that but its not enough lol

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eventually it will work

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@daydreamer, All my life I have been very, very unlucky in love. I even had a psychic tell me I was unlucky in love once. I agreed with her. How did she know? Everyone I have ever felt attraction toward has not felt the same toward me and vice versa. Every time. So, I have always had to settle for dating people I felt no attraction for.

It wasn’t until my older age that I finally got smart and quit dating.

So, no, it’s not necessarily any easier for women.

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women have this idea of the perfect guy but there is no ‘perfect guy’ that is a myth made up by the Greek gods or something

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There are “perfect” guys. I found one.

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Sounds like you have some misconceptions about women and that’s what’s holding you back.

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I’ve had terrible things happen to me with past lovers ---- I have come to my own personal terms, I don’t really love anything anymore :pensive:

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not really, i’m just trying to work out wtf is going wrong lol

if anything is holding me back it is the belly, women dont tend to go for men with a baby bump

@Cloudd3ad sorry cloud,

for me i havent got an image or anything when it comes to a women, idk what she is going to look like, I’d like her to have good skin and teeth, no marks on her, a good all round pleasant attitude, personality, fair skinned,

I think all the the good ones have been taken, ;no-one left’ no-one without baggage anyway, i guess i missed the boat when people were getting hitched

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Plenty of overweight guys get women.

I think the problem is more in your way of thinking.

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