I want a man who loves me

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I want a central person who loves me and expresses it full time. I want what they call a real MAN or a BOY friend who I can count on, is loyal not a cheater/user/etc. and not annoying at all and can tolerate my emotional shifts and doesnt cause drama when Im happy but shares the happiness and love because love is all I want and care about—so why is it such a struggle? I do love myself, and I know that. So what the hell happened when these people just walk around blind…consumed by material wealth I mean I want pure love. PURE GENUINE REAL LOVE

Guess it just wasnt in the "cards’ for me or its a freakin challenge…

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Why not try. Dating website.

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I hope that you will find someone eventually :v: :v: :v:

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I hope you meet a man soon
U never know when it’ll happen
I’m still waiting myself but I think he will come as long as I busy myself and keep the faith you will meet men u like but they might not be right for u till you find a match

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I’ve given up hope but not actively looking.

Hope you find someone @anon69073975

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I was gonna say try loving yourself 100% before having someone in your life, but it sounds like a bit of a platitude.

Your lonely - I get it. So long as you dont give away any of your core principles in a fella/woman - try a dating site.

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Don’t give up. My husband became disabled and his wife left him because of it. He had no money because she took it all right out of the account when she left him. He thought he’d be alone for life. But then he met me and we fell in love. We’re happily married

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At least he now has a real person he can count on. That must of turn him apart I cannot understand how people can be like that.

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You have a choice in who you date,

If she wants someone she perceives as a “real man” she should date and find one.

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well I gave myself a tarot reading yesterday and my obstacle in life was “The Lovers” which makes sense. I think it means stop looking for love actually…

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Tarot cards are false predictors of outcomes especially when dealing with relationships between men & women. As one member on this forum has stated, dating apps are the way to go.

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I suppose.

You’re weird about dating stuff, I’ve noticed.

Sometimes you argue women have all the control,

Now you’re saying men do.

I don’t know that your advice is coming from a place of experience as much as charts and graphs.

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I disagree.

Most single women I know are single by choice or are dating.

Most men I know that are single want a girlfriend and are intimidated by dating or fear rejection.

Those are huge generalizations also,

But has been my experience that women are more in control when it comes to who gets “picked”.

At least measuring from the amount of INCELs trolling around the internet.

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There it is,

You’ve said it before, I’m sure you’ll say it again,

Ugly women can’t get men.

That’s simply untrue.

Have you been outside?

Ugly people be procreating like mad.

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He’s suspended, he won’t respond.

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Yeah Im not sure what that person YinYang was talking about. I think relationships can be difficult too–once you find that person then are they going to be there thru thick and thin. Even more difficult for those living with broken hearts.

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I won’t badmouth him because he’s suspended and can’t respond,

But I will say, don’t take his advice.

Don’t settle, you can find the man you want.

Just get out there and start dating.

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When it comes to sexual selection, it’s women that choose, not men.

High status males, e.g. rich and powerful have the best chance of being chosen by many females.

Ugly dudes don’t get laid
Ugly chicks do, cos men are desperate for sex

Also after money/power women seem to prefer knuckle dragging brutes as opposed to intelligent ‘nice guys’

It’s true nice guys finish last, but only if they are too introverted or weird.

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I had women who were more classically physically attractive than my wife respond to my singles ad. It was also clear from their responses that there wasn’t a whole lot going on upstairs. That’s not attractive to me. I like intelligent women with interesting ideas, that’s what sexes me up.

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I have went out with and slept with ugly guys. There’s more to a man than looks.

So very it, I married an attractive man, but whovknows, to another woman he may be ugly. It’s all in the eye of the beholder.

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