Today I went to my girlfriend house and fetch her and her mother.we then went to a cafe to have some coffee and chatted.At the cafe I did try to join in and talk,but I didn’t manage to stay comfortable and focus on the conversation,it wasn’t a very good experience,I think it could be better.
After the coffee,we went to take a walk at a shopping mall as suggested by me,I did well and was able to talk comfortably with her and her mother,I also bought them something to bring home and eat.i don’t know how did I present myself infront of her mother,I don’t know if her mother like me anot?i believe my girlfriend do.
I think I can only try my best and let things happen naturally but I will put in my best effort in life and stay thinking positively
If your gf is introducing you to her mother in this social way, things could be getting more serious?
I think that you took a big step in the right direction and it seems like you handled yourself well @Mobc1990
Good luck to you with the relationship
You can only be yourself, some people may like you and some people may not. I also took a positive step today when I went to a local grocery store, I chatted briefly with a cashier person about some matters such as how they can only bring 12 packs of cigarettes from Estonia and still f.ex. 90 liters of beer. One can only be oneself. I might have to learn to show some emotion, which I have not done in the past. F.ex. 10 years ago some person was mocking me in public and other people thought why I did not defend myself, I was just quiet without any emotional reaction.
Yeah great story man seriously. It is always nice to hear when a schizo has normal experiences. I think I’m finally getting of my delusion and life is looking a little brighter. If only I had a gf I would be set. Best of luck to you man.
Thank you @Wave ,i will work more on my conversational skill,i think like having a coffee can let a person know more about you as a person.Although i was quiet but at least i didnt say anything that is rude,inappropriate,i feel contend with my performance today
I think you didn’t defend yourself 10 years ago when someone was mocking you is more of a self-esteem,self-confidence issue.Do you think if someone mock at you in the public now,will you try to defend yourself?
