So basically my mums friend introduced me to this guy. I haven’t met him I’ve not even seen photos. But he asked via text if I’d like to talk Sunday and what time and I said 6-7ish. But he said today (sunday) he can’t do that and asked if he could call 5:30ish or 8:00 ish but I made plans to go out in the evening. I could have accepted to talk to him now (its almost 5:30) but I’m really scared because I’m no good with relationships, I’ve never had one. Also afraid of the rejection that’s gonna come with it. So I said maybe we could talk tomorrow. I need time to prepare myself.
And my mum is having a go at me for not responding to him. And why I refused to talk to him right now.
Love can mess us all up so I think your mum didn’t mean anything by it . Just wants the best for you. In the end nothing wrong in just taking it slow or even just being friends with the guy. If it’s meant to be it’ll happen in the end.
It seems to me that your Mom cares for you and wants good things to happen for you - maybe you can have a talk with your Mom at some point and try to come to an understanding - tell her how you feel about the situation.
A relationship will come naturally - I think that many people like to take things slow and allow for things to happen naturally -there is no harm in starting off as friends, and take it from there - best of luck to you @anon80629714
I have all those worries
Be brave
Take it lightly
TAke a chance what have u got to lose.?
Go on one date you’ll feel better if u at least try
I’d love to meet someone go on date
just break it down your just going to meet him like meeting another friend the best thin to do is ask questions about him what heslikes to do etc then the focus is off you and you get to learn about him.