What’s the reason those who got married and then go through divorce?
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maybe they didn’t needed family
all they needed was hot times
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Divorces ■■■■ up kids. Even if the kids are 18+.
Your children should really be 24+ (Out of adolescence) before considering a divorce.
Many people overlook this.
JMO
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I just got married,but I am leaving my wife in her hometown for another month because of conora virus.I just wanna hear stories of divorce, I am not going through one myself
This is another common mistake.
You don’t NEED to be married. Marriage isn’t for EVERYONE.
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but we indian might think that way as there are single people who wants to get laid
I wish my parents hadn’t waited for me to grow up. They should have divorced when I was little. A broken marriage is way better for children than a dysfunctional home.
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It’s probably the mans fault usually.
Typically he is the one proposing, he doesn’t know WTF he’s doing/in for…
I suppose peer/social pressures can influence these unwarranted proposals.
Sorry for hijacking your threaD…
Perhaps this is why men are fertile so much later in life. And why men often pick a younger spouse. They realize the gravity that is a marriage and want to figure some things out first.
I’m realistic and I realize people make mistakes. This was just my first instinct to OP.
I divorced my daughter’s father bc he wouldn’t work and he liked women too much. My son’s father divorced me.
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Wow ! You kept that quiet ! Congratulations ! 
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My girlfriend, who has schizophrenia, was married and had three children when she became symptomatic and voluntarily checked herself into a psychiatric hospital. At that time her husband filed for divorce and was awarded custody of the children. She didn’t even have visitation, even supervised visitation.
Her brothers were able to get her alimony. Her children are now adults, and to this day refuse to speak to her.
Schizophrenia can also break relationships.
My gf left me when I was 22, when I was diagnosed with SZ, because of my symptoms and because I couldn’t work to pay my part for the house rent. She doesn’t want to suffer with me. She wanted kids before she knew I had SZ and I am proud that I didn’t let her have my kids because, when she knew I was SZ, she would have stolen the kids and my parents money for life, my only money source. And my kids might have been schizophrenics too. It would have been a complete disaster and I would have ended up in the streets, prison or committed suicide.
My ex husband was abusive. I stayed with him for 15 years but had enough and left.
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Pop culture is training people to be against marriage and having kids.
It’s kind of a catch-22 because the economy is making it very difficult to have more than one kid, if any, so you can’t blame everything on that.
My parents got divorced when I was 9. They had been unhappy for a while, and my mother had stopped loving my father although she cared deeply for him.
They decided they’d rather split up while they could still be friends, than wait for things to get ugly.
I’m glad they did. I have had several friends whose parents clearly couldn’t stand each other, and those friends were miserable.
I am thankful my parents did not put me through that.
My sister was very upset at first and thought they should have stayed together for out sake, as the divorce was tough on us all.
But in the end, they both found their soulmates and are much happier than when they were married to each other.
Sometimes people get married with the best of intentions, but then slowly grow apart until the gap is too big.
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My aunt and uncle got married when they were young, then realized they prefer each other as friends. So they stayed married on paper for tax reasons, but dated other people. When they both decided they wanted to marry their new partners, they got a quickie divorce and then remarried.
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I got divorced because my wife was a thief and sociopath.
She also was abusive towards me and cheated many times.
By the way when I became aware of the truth, she initiated the divorce.
I got divorced because I was dying there. Not his fault but I couldn’t just stay there and die, I had to leave. I had to change everything and get healthier. It’s too bad to because he was a nice guy.
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