Just like to know to those who have a partner,are married or have gone through divorce,what’s your thought and view?Is it really common nowadays as I know…
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marriage is for life =D. I think people should consider a bit more before getting married. It’s too easy to get divorced really.
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I think divorce is better than staying in an abusive marriage. I think some people are quick to call it quits when they could solve their problems, but if they aren’t both willing to do the work to problem solve, they shouldn’t be stuck together miserable for life.
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If you’re thinking about getting divorced then make sure you don’t have any kids !
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My abusive wife filed for divorce first.
Best thing that could have happened to me.
Although at the time I was devastated.
I was basically brainwashed.
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I am in the process of a divorce. We have a three year old and it is not my choice. I feel marriages should be for life.
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Divorce is common today.
It sometimes becomes a necessity.
Don’t feel bad about it.
Get a good lawyer.
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Its good that I didnt marry my gf. I was with her for 5yrs and she wanted kids but I refused as I felt sz coming. She left me bcz of my sz and extreme negative symptoms 3yrs after my sz diagnosis. Kids or marriage would have complicated everything!
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My parents got divorced, and I’m glad they did. They didn’t enjoy each other’s company and it would have been a miserable experience for everyone involved if they’d stayed together.
“Stay together for the kids” is bogus. Kids don’t need the stress of unhappy parents.
They both are happily married to their soulmates now.
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It saved my life probably. But, it also almost killed me.
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I dont divorce my wife and She agree with me that both of us raise our son. In my family, my wife dominates. in general When I cook, she will wash the dishes; when She cooks, I will wash the dishes. I didn’t tell her that I nwas mentally ill before we got married.
I dont want too much from my marriage. We have not had sex since I told her that I am menrally ill.
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“Stay together for the kids” is not bogus for me. Also, I think the Buddhism have make the relations durable.
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Marriage is not rational but perceptual.
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That’s sad. Who made that decision? Your wife?
Yes, my wife refuse to have sex with me after I told her that I am mentally ill.
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Have fun giving away half your stuff and paying your ex-wife monthly alimony to bang some other dude.
necessary at times. i wish my parents would finally divorce, they’ve been talking to me about it ever since i was about 8 
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Sometimes it is necessary. I don’t think you should do it over little things. I think you should try to work it out. Sadly abuse in all forms are real and as hard as it is to leave it is probably for the best.
It has been hard for me to choose my own happiness.
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I’m divorced and I think divorce is the best choice when a relatioship doesn’t work and makes a couple unhappy.
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Divorce is a family tradition for me, LOL. Each one of my four sisters has all been married between two and four times. My mother and father divorced when I was young as well.
But as several people have said, there’s only so much misery you can stand before it’s just time to part ways