The kid sis is rather smitten with an 18 year old boy from my AA group who is also SZ. He’s not med compliant and he’s not really having an easy time staying sober either. I feel for the kid, he’s working his butt off. But he doesn’t have a good support system in place. His life is in huge transition.
At the same time, I’ve been trying to give my kid sis hints that this guy is NOT in any shape for a real relationship. Her head understands, but I don’t think her heart is listening. They’ve gone on dates and stuff.
The library where the AA meeting is, he was in the parking lot really making out with a young lovely blond. I was calm. I was actually calm. I’m pretty happy about staying calm. I asked him who the young lovely was. He said one of his girlfriends.
I was still calm. I am so amazed I was still calm. I told him my kid sis is really rather smitten. He said he would like her better if she put out. Until that happens, she’s good for a laugh. What a pal.
I really want to tell her. But I don’t want her crying. I don’t want her holding her heart out to this person who has no interest in it. I am so angry at what a stupid drama this could become.
To tell or not to tell…
Thank you all…