I just had a 2h phone call with a friend about how much he suffers because he broke up with his ex recently.
I liked that he called me, it means he trusts and relies on me.
It makes me sad to hear a friend struggling, tho. You know you’re not going to solve anything right there.
Everything is irrational aswell. She told him to not call or message, but he cannot stop doing it. At the moment he cannot picture his life without her. But you know it will get better with time.
I’m still not over my ex and that was many years ago. Some people just stick with you I guess. I’ve had other relationships since that one but nothing compares.
It’s rough. We wanted to be together but it never worked out. My drinking offended her, rightly so. At the time I was not fit for a relationship with that much passion for things and people.
Been through it, was rough. But as time has gone by I realized more and more we were not compatible. We argued a lot and had trouble communicating. We were not at the same wave lenght. The only thing that worked was under the covers, but that won’t sustain a relationship in the long run.