Yeah don’t do it. Up until recently I was still talking to my Ex and helping her out so I know how it’s so easy to go back to your Ex’s. Ultimately I just needed to have a clean break. The reasons I left were still the same so for my own development I just had to leave it all behind me.
Be strong. It’s hard to let go of some relationships. I’ve been bouncing back and forwards over 20 years and it wasn’t really healthy for me or them.
Those reasons I left this person are still valid. The other side is that the reasons I loved that person were too. In the long run though going back and even being friends wasn’t healthy for either of us. Don’t throw away a good relationship for one that was from the past is all I would say. I for one find it hard to let go and it’s taken me a long time to get to that point where I could let go. Hang in there.