Sort of Want children. Not having much luck in dating scene

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Im not having much luck in dating scene at the moment. Probably because i look older now i have gained weight and have forhead lines and my skin looks aged. Might have a baby on my own if i one day get alot of money from a good career. Do you think that is alowed for someone with my condition?

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It’s allowed. You just need to be stable

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Yeah if you are stable

If money was not an issue and you could provide healthcare and automobiles and college and food and housing and others.

It helps if you don’t require a lot of sleep especially until the child starts to go to school unless child is homeschooled. Also someone needs to be with child 24/7 until schooling in a way.

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Maybe not the best decision then. Im jsut scared of being alone. No body is going to want me and tbh i want something to live for.

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You also need to be functioning well emotionally and to have the financial wherewithal to support a child. Going by your posting history, it would be a very bad idea for you to have a child right now. You seem to have some severe emotional issues which would cause severe distress for a child and there is also your financial instability. I can tell you that growing up under an emotionally damaged single mom in extreme poverty is hell on Earth. Please don’t do that to a kid.

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I just want something to be proud of. I want my kids to be beautiful and intelligent.

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I wouldnt want to make my child suffer so im not sure

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Then go out and accomplish something. Learn a skill and do something with it.

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Yeah true i want to get a career

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I am not sure for having kids for myself. I was hell for my parents when psychotic and I don’t want my kids to suffer or make me suffer due to sz if they get it.

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There aren’t many if any things better than having a beautiful and intelligent child. Things like realistic guidance and education for intelligence. I think a beautiful child is one with lots of acceptance of life and people.

You should form pride with yourself before you have a child in order for the child to have a sense of pride.

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I’m being serious, get a pet like a dog or cat.
They make great companions and you feel good about yourself taking care of a living creature.

My cat gives me purpose, this is so important

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I might do once im able to move out

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