So I’ve been trying to make new friends and go out more. I thought school will be good for it… but…
I’m not good at it. I just see all their faults and dislike them. It’s my problem, because I know everyone has qualities also.
But I hate the constant sex jokes, the its all about fashion and social masks pretend behavior. There is one guy that has this thing about suicide jokes, always doing it. It’s a trigger for me but I keep my mouth shut.
They’re mostly racist and sexists. They gossip about others, god knows what they say about me.
They’re in a health career and are completely insensitive to peoples issues, it’s about grades and who gets them better, competition and not being good at it.
I know I’m particularly negative these last few weeks since my grandfather died so I’m sorry for all the negative posts.
People often suck.
Lots of times, from what I have seen, is that plenty of health profession people are really just in it for power and superiority, they don’t care about being good, they want titles and money and recognition. And they want to be authority.
However, lots of times, people in health professions have a story about why they devote their lives to helping others, often because they have been hurt or because they have seen people suffer, or both.
Some nurses tend to think they’re the ■■■■. They’re really not. Pseudo doctors. But they have their little slice of authority and are free to be condescending and think poorly of the people they treat. Not all, but some are like that.
There are two types of health professionals- the empathetic ones and the power-hungry ones.
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Sorry for the loss of your loved one. Life has ups and downs, and I think no one can constantly be positive all the time.
You’ll need to be cautious and selective when making friends, for it is better to have no friends at all than having bad friends.
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I have the same sort of issues, my friends only take about getting girls and I’m left feeling inadequate and rather upset, and it’s such a sensitive issue for me, I do my best to keep myself from getting upset but I have to leave
The more I think about it, the more I want to finish the degree and start working just to prove that I can.
I’ve seen pain, emotional and physical and I learned a lot from it. I went to this degree to help others, and I often think I need to help myself first. I’m a bit torn right now, depression is getting a bit the better of me right now I think.
But yeah, anyway, they suck.
There’s one kid that’s alright though. He’s sweet and thoughtful. He’ll make a good professional. The others are just there as decoration as far as I’m concerned. They can be good at all the classes but fail as humans.
I’m being too hard maybe, but being away from them for a few days put this in perspective. I’m too submissive in real life. Need to work this out.
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You don’t really have to like someone to be friends. Advice from my boyfriend because me too dont get along with a lot of people. But after some time youll start seeing their qualities, everybody has qualities. Youre your own person and chances are some wont like you either. Just be cautious not to dvelop hatred, i know i have in the past…
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You’re right. Everybody has qualities.
I don’t hate… it’s not in me I think. I’m hating the situation, it led me to drink again and I feel guilty.
But I’ll try and me more comprehensive.
i think that as things go along they will learn to grow more mature about things in that profession (or so you would hope) lol
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Tradicional Chinese Medicine
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Maybe yeah, I have thought about it. It will be cool to see the development.
No. I drank a sip of wine. Reset my alcohol sobriety date to Dec 18th
Sorry minni! Please dont. 
I will go on a break after the holidays too. you inspire me!
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Sorry you lost your grandfather.
I’d try to post a cute pic to cheer you up, but under those circumstances it seems inappropriate. It just takes time to heal from things like that.
Good quality friends are hard to find. So many people are very judgmental and put others down to make other people feel better. Maybe you’re better off not being friends with these people and trying to find other friends. That’s what I love about cats & dogs, they’re not judgmental jerks like humans.
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Hear that’s amazing, I’m really starting to hate talking about my problems but do you know anything that can help restore brain function?
Yeah I’ll be the crazy cat lady. I have decided this in the past.
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Not yet I don’t. I know acupuncture can help diminishing symptoms but you’d need to be in China and receive daily treatments for the rest of your life.
That sounds expensive lol your really doing something awesome, there is a local Chinese medicine store near me, would you recommend going and taking to them ?
