So I think I've given up with the whole dating thing

I always have this fear whether anyone can accept me with this. What will they think? Probably the best bet is not to force it. not to look but maybe if I go to groups and things I’ll find someone and be friends before anything else. I don’t want to put high expectations on something right from the start.

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I also don’t think I’m well and stable to date at the moment. But I could do with friends. I might go to some meet ups.

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Yes,although I don’t have much experience with B/G relationship but I think everything starts with friendship,you know it also!

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You’ll find a good guy and get married one day Ish! I think you would benefit from increasing your self-esteem though. I’m sure there’s thousands of guys that would love to be with you, regardless of what label a pdoc might of diagnosed you with.

You’re a nice person, attractive and clever. It’s just a matter of time before you find Mr. Right!

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You’ve gotta do what you think is best, but you’re depriving some guy of a really nice girl friend. You’re good looking and an interesting person. You might be trying too hard.

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I felt extremely bad about this I really found this guy attractive through his pics. I just told him I’m not ready going through something I need to overcome. And wished him the best.

maybe don’t look at people’s pictures… :man:
joining a group with common interests is a :bulb: great idea.
eventually fall in love :heart: with someones heart and mind… :books:
that is what will keep you interested for the rest of your life…not looks.
take care :alien:

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I think you’re right. The worst thing you can do to find love is to look for it. Everyone seems to step into love by accident.

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