I don’t want to date anymore. I’ll never find anyone. I thought the date was going well until he pulled out his phone to check the time so I said do you want to go and he said yes. So we both left and he said he’d give me a shout and I don’t understand why guys say that when they don’t mean it. I know we only met yesterday but I sent him a text saying sorry didn’t say thank you for drink and it was nice meeting you. But obviously it shouldn’t take this long to reply.
Love tends to find you while you’re not looking for it or want it. Just focus on yourself and finding out what makes you happy and you’ll see what I mean.
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dear sweet ish,
When I met my girlfriend on plenty of fish, we talked online for a very long time before meeting.? You can keep from having awkward dates by really getting to know the person you are meeting by asking them every question under the sky…are you looking for a long term relationship? etc…
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Dating is hard for everyone. It’s an odds game. The more dates you go out on, the better your chances of finding someone who you like and likes you back. And you can learn something from each date. You can look back and see if you did anything wrong.I don’t mean over-analyze everything or be over-critical of yourself or blame yourself for everything that went wrong.I just mean maybe you didn’t talk enough, or maybe you talked too much. Stuff like that you can work on. Don’t always blame yourself if a date goes wrong. It might be something about him that’s not good.
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I have no friends to go out with no social life and no hope
I totally emphasise shelleys I have no friends, no social life at all 
Thanks @dreamscape, @jukebox @77nick77 - I think I expected too much too soon.
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I have this bookmarked hoping it will sink in.
I have a feeling that you will find a nice person when your ready… not when you and this other guy are forced together by family and friends…
I remember you were working to get into Uni for a therapy program… you’ve gone through a some job changes… there is a lot of change happening in your life. I bet once you’re ready… you’ll find someone when you least expect it.
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It sounds like he had other things on his mind. Checking his phone… It sounds like he’s not interested but it could be due to other things going on in his life right now.
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At least I’m not the only one ish ta
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I’m on OkCupid and I just agreed to go to the movies with a guy, but when I looked at his answers to their questions he doesn’t believe in using protection. It is hard to date people, but it’s something that you have to let yourself experience. We get smoothed out like stones the farther we go down the river of relationships. It will be all the more special when you do find the right person, and you’ll be ready for him.
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Sounds to me like he’s a guy you’re better off without. There are a lot of people out there of both sexes who are real assholes. I’ve talked to enough people about relationships to know that a lot of relationships are pure hell on this earth. I wouldn’t be so eager to find a man if I were you. You might be happier without one.
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hi ish dont worry round 2 you found as ■■■■■■■ ok nothing you did nothing AT ALL. sometimes in life people are pure rude nacissists and it has nothing to do with you ok? next please expecting a full date report 2 a week please.LOL
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A defeatist attitude will never get you anywhere. Perk up. Your capable of claiming the most decent of men.
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im lonely as fxxx date please…
I hate being a defeatist too,I work 11.5 hrs a day,six days a week,it’s quite a long working hour for schizophrenic,the stress sometimes is too hard to handle and I become a defeatist after that,I don’t really like being one…
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Hello Ish,
Don’t give up your hopes right away, don’t loose your hopes while we are still alive in this planet earth we have hopes and feelings to full in love and some times to hurt too, it is a normal process for being human being. If a person likes you he/ she will accept you of who you really are, don’t care about your past and your illness. It is a natural reaction of what you feel now. But if she/he don’t like you. Is not mean its the end of your world. Too many guys/women out there who really loves you. Just keep going your hopes and dreams don’t give up. That is life, and life is so hard and painful some times too.
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I am so tired also,just no one can pull me out of these,what should I do??
In a way I found my GF after I gave up hope.
I just quit worrying about it and decided that I’d be happy with a few friends…
My GF and I were both not looking for a relationship. But then things started to grow.
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Better you can do just keep going find another person who can give you love and happiness don’t give up. Who knows one of the guy/woman you can date with is meant to be for you alone.
Myself I do believe the destiny if you meant each other, you matter what you do your belong to each other. I do believe in God and trust in God too, so to me if God give you a man/woman to be with you it means you is and her/him meant to be with you forever. Just don’t give up. Be yourself and be happy for your life while your looking for your soul mate.
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