Self image

I dont know Why i have hard liking myself
We females we are all beautiful in our way right
But still hard…. Idk… some thoughts.
I like my style
My hair
Maybe im too proper in my personality.

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In my opinion most people struggle with self esteem issues In one way or another.

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I struggle too. I haven’t had ovaries for 10 years which means I have no estrogen. As a result, I carry extra fat in my tummy even though I diet and workout. I hate it! I’m so self conscious about it.

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When my aunt had a hysterectomy the doctor put her on hrt. She said that worked for her.

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It can put you at high risk for breast cancer the longer you’re on it.

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My self confidence went down since having sz.

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Thats understandable.
What you insecure about, just in general?

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I feel I am worth less than others because I am fat and can’t work.

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Ok. No work didnt affect myself so much.
Were you self confident before sz?
Im like what is even confidence?..

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I was a bit more confident before sz as I was 140lb and had a job but still less than normal confidence.

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@Yellowdiamond are there things about yourself that you feel you do well? Do you think you are a good listener? Are you kind? Are you good at solving problems? Are you a good cook?

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We all will struggle with self image. All our life as we will change year after year as we age.

So accept your former present and future self.

I think humans are all unique.

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Good listener and kind? Yeah i am.
I believe i Will improve in my self belief
Someday though. :blush:

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I have always thought highly of you, thought of you as kind. When we think of ourselves in terms of lacking certain attributes it’s easy to have low self esteem. When I was younger I wanted to be beautiful and always thought of myself as bad because I wasn’t. Now I try to focus on the 100’s of things that I like about me instead of the things that society taught me was valuable that I don’t even care about.

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I’m thinking of buying keto gummies to lose weight rapidly. I’m obese.

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I feel less confident too because I’m fat n stuff.

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You are not fat !!! At least in your pics you look a good weight

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My natural weight is 51 kg I think. But I’m 70 kg…

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70 kg is not bad.

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Not working is bothering me more than being unhealthy and fat.

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