I dont know Why i have hard liking myself
We females we are all beautiful in our way right
But still hard…. Idk… some thoughts.
I like my style
My hair
Maybe im too proper in my personality.
In my opinion most people struggle with self esteem issues In one way or another.
I struggle too. I haven’t had ovaries for 10 years which means I have no estrogen. As a result, I carry extra fat in my tummy even though I diet and workout. I hate it! I’m so self conscious about it.
When my aunt had a hysterectomy the doctor put her on hrt. She said that worked for her.
It can put you at high risk for breast cancer the longer you’re on it.
My self confidence went down since having sz.
Thats understandable.
What you insecure about, just in general?
I feel I am worth less than others because I am fat and can’t work.
Ok. No work didnt affect myself so much.
Were you self confident before sz?
Im like what is even confidence?..
I was a bit more confident before sz as I was 140lb and had a job but still less than normal confidence.
@Yellowdiamond are there things about yourself that you feel you do well? Do you think you are a good listener? Are you kind? Are you good at solving problems? Are you a good cook?
We all will struggle with self image. All our life as we will change year after year as we age.
So accept your former present and future self.
I think humans are all unique.
Good listener and kind? Yeah i am.
I believe i Will improve in my self belief
Someday though.
I have always thought highly of you, thought of you as kind. When we think of ourselves in terms of lacking certain attributes it’s easy to have low self esteem. When I was younger I wanted to be beautiful and always thought of myself as bad because I wasn’t. Now I try to focus on the 100’s of things that I like about me instead of the things that society taught me was valuable that I don’t even care about.
I’m thinking of buying keto gummies to lose weight rapidly. I’m obese.
I feel less confident too because I’m fat n stuff.
You are not fat !!! At least in your pics you look a good weight
My natural weight is 51 kg I think. But I’m 70 kg…
70 kg is not bad.
Not working is bothering me more than being unhealthy and fat.