Its been 5 years since i last had sex. And even though my sexual drive is a lot lower on invega i still get horned up from time to time. I miss sex. But ive come to the realization that i will probably never meet a woman again. And i will never have sex again. Im getting desperate and signed up on a dating app. But its very rare a girl likes me on there. I just keep on swiping right. Waiting for a match.
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Donāt give up. But also donāt let yourself be desperate. Donāt let the prospective dates have all the upper hand. In other words, donāt put up with BS just to have someone in your life. Youāre worthy of love. Remember that.
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Yeah. I have always been one to put up with stupid ā ā ā ā just to have someone. I quit making that mistake and havent found anybody. I liked this one girl a lot but she wasnt a citizen and had to leave the country
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Go out and join things. That way you can get to know ladies over time
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If you only want sex you could just get an escort lol
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Its difficult to find a sex partner you can trust not to risk catching any diseases. Even online you can catch a computer virus. I am so happy as it is.
I dont have money to pay for sex. I think i want more than just sex. I want to cuddle and watch movies too
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The way HPV spreads is scary
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I have gotten a lot of matches but nobody ever wants to do anything after matching. No message responses or anything. I dont care though because people on dating apps are weird.
That sounds like stereotyping.
Iāve met a few outstanding women on dating apps. It was me that felt weird, especially after sz.
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You could try more than one app. Thereās load of online dating platforms out there. Hopefully you will meet the right person.
Iām still a virgin, I donāt really judge myself, I am a bit cloistered in my life and kind of a hermit, I think if I get out more I could find a girl to be happy with but honestly, I have a lot of issues that all need work, so I feel that would be opening myself up to disappoint another person and feel worse.
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I rarely go out. If i do im delivering food and my conversations are āhiā and ābyeā. I have a perfect rating though. 5 stars.
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I had sex two or three times when I was 14-15 and thatās the only time (Iām 31 now) so that 16+ years. I had maybe three girls I couldāve slept with if I was more determined to. But I was really anxious about sex, having slept with someone when I wasnāt really ready to.
I try not to care too much about it. Sleeping with people just for lols isnt something I enjoy.
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No. I think id want something consistent. I would do a horse at the moment though. Im a very sex loving person. Only had 1 one night stand. I treat women with respect. The 1 night stand was mutual just wanting sex. We both knew it wasnt going anywhere
I sometimes like sex and other times im just Grossed out by it lol.
I dont think i could do as many positions as i used to. Especially missionary. I cant even do 2 push ups anynore. If i do ever have sex again im going to be so out of breath
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Iāve had sex 7 times and the last time was 9 years ago, but iām not bothered really, i think iām asexualā¦i plan on going without it for the rest of my life.
Im kinda asexual as well. Nobody knows me like i know me. While i would love to find a fwb i think my life is going to be easier if i just self service. Nothing can really replace sex. Ive considered getting one of those expensive sex dolls. But i dont want to have to clean it and would find it horrifying when im paranoid. Plus how would i explain it to my parents
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I get bored during sex. Not had it for maybe 4 years now, and I donāt really care. Just doesnāt do anything for me at all
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