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People on dating sites are so GD horny! Geez!

There are way too many delusional men, and they’re crazy if they think that’s arousing. But if you’re really lucky, there are men who can turn you on just by talking to you. But so rare.

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Dating sites are for physically attractive people.
Not for me.
I’m old and fat.

Plus many women are looking for someone with a good job.

That too is not me.

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Is that what women want?
I’m honestly wondering. I’d never want to date a man who wasn’t honest about wanting sex. Straight dating culture is weird.

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Lesbian dating culture tends to be more honest and upfront about sex as well. At least it always used to be. And I always appreciated that.:blush:

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Yeah, same. Talking about fantasies and having sex on first dates has always been normal to me and something I appreciate.

I know women who are similar but I gather that’s not so common. Maybe it’s more common here though.

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Same here @Treebeard . When I was young and active in the LGBTQ subculture, it was almost always expected that we would meet, dance, talk, kiss, grope, and then, go to one or the others home to have sex. It was expected. And we enjoyed it. And it often turned into a longish term relationship.

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Many men want a woman with financial stability too and that isn’t me. I am poor as dirt. I had my chance at being used like a porn star by men with money but I can’t do it:( I literally just can’t and even that opportunity has passed.

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Agree. Especially professional level men. Not to sound like a snob, but I want a professional man, because I went to two grad school programs, and I want someone who “matches” me. Now I just have to get healthy and get back to work…

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Lost some interest in it since I had my 1st date from a dating app.
My feeling about women changed a bit afterwards, although every human is different.
It’s hard dating on dating apps, that’s the reality, no matter what you are looking for.

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It certainly seems that way, doesn’t it? If I wasn’t so lonely and bored, I wouldn’t bother, but responding to messages, even if nothing will come of it, gives me something to do.

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I tried match.com once. They had a special offer on for 3 months, so I gave it a shot. Very few people are looking for what I am, and the only face I recognized was one of my ex-girlfriends, and my therapist lol. They were both on there

Small world

What I am looking for is a friend, who I care about deeply, and we have mind-blowing raunchy, life-altering sex LOL

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I wish you luck in finding what you’re looking for. As a female, I would struggle with that kind of relationship and I would feel used. But I have a LOT of trauma issues. I could actually live without the sex, so now what do I get out of the relationship? It’s hard :frowning:
Plus I am broke as ■■■■ and that is a huge turn off for people. I don’t blame them.

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The caring about someone deeply, comes before the sex. If I wanted to get laid, I could probably meet someone within an hour on Plenty of Fish. Not my thing

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That’s GTK. Plenty of Fish got bought by Match so they are not as sketch as they used to be. Their is still FriendFinder, lol. I went on there the other day actually looking for platonic friends and it is nothing but sexual hook-ups! What a fool I am to think otherwise.

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tbh i have never shared a sexual pic with a girl before online, my ex recorded me doing something but she then gave the phone to her dad who saw :frowning: i was very upset about that.

I’ve been trying on tinder but the 2 women i was texting has stopped texting now, not sure what to do,

Its another lonely Friday night for me (and every other night too :frowning: )

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God damn, that is nasty!

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i was horrified,

She also left blood soaked knickers on my teddy bear and i only found them a while later after we split, it wasnt very hygienic of her :frowning: (idk why she didnt wrap them up and put them in the bin.

sorry, there were a few things that happened, i shouldnt really say :frowning: i’ll shut up now

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Good riddance to that one! No one needs that s***

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Its strange but i think she had a problem with her thinking so i’ll just blame it on that, it was very hard to tell sometimes what was going on but i tried to support her as much as i could

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That’s good character. It’s so easy to hate your ex, especially when they’ve hurt you

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