My mother used to talk to me a lot, now she tries to end phone calls really quickly, and she avoids logging onto Facebook in the morning so I can see when she is awake.
I probably shouldn’t have been checking this anyway
My care coordinator didn’t bother to call me this week as promised.
The rest of my family never call me anymore.
I feel so alone in this world. My existence seems pointless.
Even though I have my issues with sz, gad and asd, that doesn’t mean that I don’t want to be able to talk to someone
I just had an argument with the local mental health line as the guy refused to answer my question of was he reading from a script.
don’t give up @Joker a lot of people don’t have as much time on their hands as us disabled folks…I used to get hurt a lot by that…I just listen to music and reach out with texts if I want to talk to anyone.
Try to be more pleasant on the phone,dont know if u are complainning we tend to hear less people who complaiining all the time.
or its what jukebox said !
I don’t know if I am doing this or not, but what I think you’re trying to say is I might be doing something wrong in how I talk to people and what the topic is.
Suppose my mother has just got tired of talking to me.
Fade i said that cause i dont listen much my sister cause she is growling all the time.
i still love here but i see a distance she seems she doesnt focus on the good things in life and she tends to negative ones.
scizophrenia is a jail" we must do everything we can to pass the time as best as we can for us and others.
it is serious when u say" no one wants too talk to me."
its either u or the rest but what the odds 1vs many, try to focus on good things and be cheerful, helpful,kind smile even and see if ull see a diferenece.
just an advice dont know your dificulties and your life.
People often don’t know what to say to people like us. They dread hearing bad news of us going back into psychosis.
My mom used to tell me I couldn’t go to church or hang out with the youth group. She was uncomfortable with my religious beliefs as they differ from hers.
I was emancipated at 16, but ended up maintaining a relationship with my mom. But I have to keep conversation on the positive side or she’ll lose interest.
I don’t know why your mom doesn’t talk to you much. It may be she feels bad about herself and it may not be about you at all.
When you see your mom, try to remain positive. I don’t think it’s your fault, but people like to be around positive thinkers. So try to remain positive around your mom.
Just remember you did nothing wrong. You can’t help being sick
Yeah. That is how we play the social script. If someone asks me how I’m doing I almost always say “just fine” or “not bad” when the truth is I could hold a seminar about my issues, but I guess so could many other people as well.
first things first …
if they don’t want to talk to you … don’t worry.
Stop giving them any importance :)( bad advice but it will work)
you have social media accounts then talk with your online frnds.
and most importantly keep yourself busy by doing something … so you will not even feel need to talk with someone.
i don’t want to talk to you i just want to give you a Hug and a kick in the but to get you mad enought to tell them they are all selfish to talk to anyway.
With Covid I don’t interact with customers unless there is a design change on an agreed job, or they bring out a coffee.
In a 9 hour day I probably interact with people for 10 mins.
This is good in a way, as in my office job I was in constant communication with other people, mainly dealing with stupid questions and trying to ‘firefight’ issues with data etc that idiots created and couldn’t fix themselves. I used to get into a lot of trouble for being blunt in my challenges back to these people.
Now I have the other extreme of minimal contact, but I think the benefits of this are much greater as I can get on with my work