New tactics

So I’ve recently hit a phase of a cycling and general direction to relapse… it’ll never be like that first time I really can’t entertain 98% of the stuff my mind had floating around in it before I had my first break. I still get delusional and wrapped up, trying to understand that which isn’t even real. But I’ve jsut found some new tactic and I need to write them out… they might help. I’ve had this illness for about 3 years now and it’s taking me this long to gather these… so any newly diagnosed or those worried of being diagnosed… allow me to share…

This shall pass: (Thanks @sarad)
Good and bad… the mind is amazing and can pull through… don’t be drastic in bad times things will always get better, it might only be relatively better, but better all the same.

Recovery is a full time job: (Group therapy instructor)
This could be extended to health in general. Always be as mindful as you can about what you are putting in your body and try to track your mental cycles… for me caffeine leaves me wired and prone to entertain delusion… i typically only drink it when I have no social contact around. This leads me to my next point…

Simplify your chemistry (Cut out the drugs and external neuro-chemicals):
Regarding alcohol I’m not strict. Alcohol isn’t a neurotransmitter itself, its a blood thinner which safely chokes the brain a bit creating an altered state. Nicotine and marijuana and god forbid any other drug… they gotta go. Caffeine isn’t good for an erratic mind either, but just like alcohol I’m lax with it too. Life isn’t about having a good time any more… you have a mental illness it’s time to grow up and get stable. (this one takes a lot of effort and learning to live without these things, find people on the same path MI or not… they will work with you and not against you.)

It’s not real:
Obviously, we’re on a rock revolving around a star… we don’t know much else and not much else needs to be known… Live well… that’s the ultimate goal… Telepathy, aliens, multiple dimensions… yadda yadda… not real in the slightest no confirmation ever existed… its just the collective humanity’s psuedo schizophrenic tendencies that keep that stuff alive…

Get out of the house for an hour or more a day. (new one for me):
Psychosis… it is neuroplastic(based on changeable neural pathways)… sz will tell you voices change and come and go… Sitting in one environment (even though it feels safer) will allow psychosis to really set in especially if the psychosis is the mental focus even in the background… Mix it up… go outside and get a fresh perspective… take a walk, visit a friend, remind yourself of what is real.

Neuroplasticity & Meds:
Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) and neuroplasticity go hand in hand… brain training in essence… imagine how you want your brain to be and work to embody it by entertaining it and falling back to that image. Medications are also a great way to control chemical balances and cycling issues… These two combined can allow a great many of us to return to comfortably functional lives, with freedom from torment.

If you have a symptom… talk about it:
Especially on here… detail it as best as you can and ask if anyone has struggled with or overcome said symptom(s). It took me 3 years before I finally started hearing about people that totally got the reigns on “thought broadcasting” which is my primary symptom…
Here are some helpful terms:
Ideas of reference: When you believe something is referring to you.
Ideas of control: When you feel like someone is controlling you
Thought insertion: you feel like your thoughts are be created by someone else
Stereotypy: Nervous repetitive ticks typical to autism and disorganized SZ (hebephrenia).
Delusion: A belief that lies far outside normal thinking… typically not hypothetical exploration.
Delusions of grandeur: Thinking you are special or even god endowed or a god yourself… (no one is special)
Hallucinations:
Tactile - physically feeling things that aren’t there… temperature changes included
Visual - seeing things ** (that aren’t there)
Auditory - Hearing things **
Inner audio(my word) - Hearing things that are clearly perceived as being heard with the head and not ears
Vocies - thoughts or “inner audio” that you do not control
Olfactory - smelling things **

People have gotten over just about every symptom of this illness… maybe not the whole illness itself… we all get hung up on this or that… but each symptom… it has been overcome by thousands if not millions… If you just can get around it… don’t be discouraged… like I said we all run into those issues we are at a loss for… which leads me to my last point…

Don’t give up:
Rest when you need too… but keep fighting and be patient… you have decades to slowly reverse the bad ends… and if you are diligent… like a lot of the older folks here were… you’ll find that you;ve figured out how to live right and well and the illness is hardly a factor in your life anymore (at least I hope).
It might be hell for 20 years… but after that you might have 20 normal ass years which is a total bliss for anyone with psychosis.

There are others… but they are more minor…

Don’t panic & don’t hurt yourself
this community is loving and forgiving… join us as we fight this, we are the only ones who know how.

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oh I would add… that you please add anything that you might want to share here

I just typed this for myself… but I thought it’d fit here… I really have to redouble my psychological efforts here just to get through the next couple weeks… new meds and stuff won’t come quickly… I did it though… I might have spotted the lock and key that flew off that box long ago.

Allow myself to feel… instead of run
Give it no validity
Get out of the house for a while every day
Forget about people
Don’t let it psyche you out
What keeps us listening is our mistakes in the face of it’s consistency…
Allow imperfection… self compassion… you are human and so am I
Take no interest… the voices won’t help you solve the puzzle you’re facing
You want them to stop? Don’t listen…
find silence for your own voice… and drive them out by refusing to process their words
its not real, regardless of what they do… it’s not real

no hallucination or occurence should allow you to believe you deserve some horrific unnatural experience…
if it isn’t the normal… don’t let it register… push it out or let it drift away…

think about simple times… the kind of stuff you imagine after reading a dr. suess book as a kid.

cardboard boxes on doorsteps in the rain… boots and umbrella resting inside the door… orange paint…

most of all don’t argue with them…

one wise playground monitor lady when I was kid and I went her when I was being bullied… she said “be like a turtle and let it roll of your back” You can’t confront the demons like you could a real life bully… you can’t call their parents… it’s the only thing you can do… let it roll off your back. Let their words have no weight… no meaning… no relevance… they spout lies and twist your views… they don’t want to perish, but you have to make them by giving them no shelter…

this shall pass… this shall pass…

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There’s a lot of good stuff in this post. Nice work.

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Ah, thanks mal… Im going to revisit it later on myself. Will have too.

Its funny how much basic therapy did help me when i finally get my wits and put it to use… The self compassion and watching the mind flowing like a river crap…

Well that second part is hard to do when the content is so fowl… But eventually it helps…

All basic mindfulness…

That advice about turtle who let things roll over her…the acceptance thing, reminded me of a thread “Five stages or recovery” which I think fits here well.
I’m so happy to see how great you are improving @church. :heart:
Denial / Pre-Contemplation. The patient does not know, cannot see, or refuses (usually out of irrational fear) to observe to notice to recognize his or her actual thoughts, emotions, sensations or behaviors.

**Contemplation / Consideration.**The patient becomes willing and open to at least looking at and thinking about his or her actual thoughts, emotions, sensations or behaviors.

Identification / Acceptance. The patient has looked at and thought about his or her actual thoughts, emotions, sensations or behaviors long enough to recognize, acknowledge, accept and own them.

Commitment / Action. The patient has become motivated enough to engage in theaction of detachment and distancing from his or her actual thoughts, emotions,sensations or behaviors in favor of continuing direct observation, noticing and recognition, as well as acknowledgment, acceptance and ownership of what he or she thinks, feels, says and does.

Relapse Prevention / Maintenance. The patient has worked with the skills of observing to notice to recognize to acknowledge to accept to own to appreciate to understand his or her thoughts, feelings and behaviors long enough that he or she can now pick up those tools whenever his or her thoughts, feelings and behaviors are recognized, acknowledged, accepted, owned, appreciated and understood to be taking them back into their misery, depression,anxiety, mania or anger.

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This sounds more like an addiction issue process detailed here but its always good to interpret things openly and see if the mind makes its own advice…

Thanks @sarad… Ive really got to stick to my guns this time. I can’t stand the voices… They the worst things. I found strength in a very low time here…

I just want to solve the mystery and have them be gone… But it opens me up to entertaining them…

But i gotta call it a night.