I am leaving my abusive ex. Please put good memes, best wishes, and love below. We were together 8 years. I am ashamed of coming here because while I was here regularly I used my relationship to encourage others that we can have long-lasting relationships. Then I fell victim of the 10 year curse. 7 starting from when he started to become abusive.
We aren’t unlovable. He is just an abusive c***.
Note: I know it’s too soon for another relationship but I live to flirt. Are dating sites where hopefully he won’t be ok? Like it’s been my only positive interaction for a long time.
Amen. I had been trying for years. I finally found proof that he was cheating on me. sweet sweet freedom. I hope she was only “with” him. I feel bad for her if she decides to keep him.
My sister was married to a narcissist for 20 years before she finally left him for good. Every Xmas for years the family’s like “Here comes (my sister) for her yearly visit. How long before she goes back to him this time?” For nine years she left him once a year. I think she just wanted Xmas gifts too.
that really sucks. Probably hurt her feelings. That’s one reason I didn’t leave sooner. I was afraid of people bringing up my mistake all the time. I already knew that would hurt like f.
We didn’t say that stuff to her. We said it about her cos everyone was so frustrated and worried about her. I honestly didn’t think she’d make it out alive. He’s choked her. Shot her tires out of her car. He’s held a gun to her head.
My dad has a bad temper though but he was nicer to my niece I guess than he was to my sister and I. My niece is a paralegal now so my dad did something right.
My sister is a good person but it’s hard to leave an abuser. I think it’s called battered women’s syndrome.