Need support

I am leaving my abusive ex. Please put good memes, best wishes, and love below. We were together 8 years. I am ashamed of coming here because while I was here regularly I used my relationship to encourage others that we can have long-lasting relationships. Then I fell victim of the 10 year curse. 7 starting from when he started to become abusive.

We aren’t unlovable. He is just an abusive c***.

Note: I know it’s too soon for another relationship but I live to flirt. Are dating sites where hopefully he won’t be ok? Like it’s been my only positive interaction for a long time.

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You’ll be okay. Its good to get away if it was abusive.

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Amen. I had been trying for years. I finally found proof that he was cheating on me. :slight_smile: sweet sweet freedom. I hope she was only “with” him. I feel bad for her if she decides to keep him.

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I’ve related this before…might give you a chuckle.

When I was 20 years old I sat my girlfriend of a year and a half down and said…

“Look. I think I need a break. We’re not intimate anymore. We argue all of the time, and think it’s for the best.”

She cried and said “No! No!”

So a week goes by and she sits me down and says…

“Look. I think I need a break. We’re not intimate anymore. We argue all of the time, and think it’s for the best.”

LOL!!!

She just wanted to be the one to break up with me!! So she could tell all of her friends that she dumped me instead of vice versa!

Oh, man did I laugh!

Anyhoo, shortly after that disastrous relationship I met my future wife…so it all worked out. :wink:

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hahahaha that sounds like she was a real weirdo. At least she let go and didn’t fight! Definitly a -.- moment.

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My sister was married to a narcissist for 20 years before she finally left him for good. Every Xmas for years the family’s like “Here comes (my sister) for her yearly visit. How long before she goes back to him this time?” For nine years she left him once a year. I think she just wanted Xmas gifts too.

I save the sleeping photo. For future use if I need it.

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that really sucks. Probably hurt her feelings. That’s one reason I didn’t leave sooner. I was afraid of people bringing up my mistake all the time. I already knew that would hurt like f.

We didn’t say that stuff to her. We said it about her cos everyone was so frustrated and worried about her. I honestly didn’t think she’d make it out alive. He’s choked her. Shot her tires out of her car. He’s held a gun to her head.

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holy ■■■■. I am very lucky it didn’t get to that point.

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Oh yeah. My dad actually raised my niece from the time she was a little thing. My sister lost custody.

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that’s great that she was spared from living in that hell

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My dad has a bad temper though but he was nicer to my niece I guess than he was to my sister and I. My niece is a paralegal now so my dad did something right.

My sister is a good person but it’s hard to leave an abuser. I think it’s called battered women’s syndrome.

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wooooo yeah. It wasn’t nearly that bad but it was/is very hard.

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I’ve been with my wife for 30 years. I swear she can read my mind!

Me: “Hey, Honey! Where’s that…thing!”

Wife: “Top shelf in the bedroom closet.”

Me: “Right. thanks.”

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I’m so excited for you. That sounds like a wonderful, loving, relationship

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We traveled…led a great couple’s life…before the kids.

Now we’re four and and have a great family life. My twins will be adults in just a year and a half.

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Hello! I hope you’re in a safe place right now and feeling better.

Take care.

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