My roommate 68 year old woman has severe phobia of crazy people

You cant imagine what things she has done because of that. Psychotic. She is afraid of me like fire …she acts around me as is i was satan.

Its really weird to be treated as a bad person when i consider myself friendly and forgiving person.

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You are a good person. Don’t let her influence you

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Not a good combination for living together, can you change roomates- or rooms?

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I like my room and balcony and i dont want to move. I cant tell her to move.

What do you think…maybe its better to live with her and get experience of being hated for no reason so later in life when i have real situations i already know what to do? I mean crazyphobics attacking situation.

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It sounds stressful for both you and your roommate. Is this a board and care facility?

Sorry about that you are a good person.

Its a city appartment. But if i go to the social worker she will make it even harder. I told the social worker im not allowed to take a shower at home she said i must pay my roommate even if the bill is devided.

Im afraid of that social worker. People go to her for help and she makes things harder.

And i am afraid i will loose my room.

But my roomamate is harrassing me.

You are not allowed to take a shower? Hows that situation work?
My first step would be going to a different social worker or getting help from your family. You can’t live like that.

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I’m with @77nick77 on this all the way. Try a different social worker; speak to someone, for goodness; sake. If you don’t let someone know there is a problem, no one will know to fix it.

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Yeah @anon62371846, you can’t solve this problem alone. Get some kind of social worker or mental health worker to advocate for you.

I have the opportunity to go to gym where i can take a shower. My mental health activity center has a gym so i take a shower there.

My nerghborhood has only two social workers and they sit in the same room. The bad woman and the other woman.

Not allowing someone to shower in their own home where they pay rent is not OK. What’s next? Not allowing you to use the toilet? :confused:

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I agree with everyone else on this thread @anon62371846 You need to be able to shower, bathe and use the bathroom in your own apartment whether that woman lives there with you or not. This is not acceptable. You should probably talk with the alternate social worker about all of this whether she is in the same room with the bad social worker or not is immaterial. If that fails, I would call the police.

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And this is the reason why I never tell anyone about my diagnosis. I just let everyone believe that I am a normie. It is none of anyone else’s business.

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