This could definitely help 
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Of course you want to talk about it! It caused you major stress and made you feel unloved by the person who is supposed to love you most.
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Hey @anon85745701, I’m sorry I couldn’t read all of the replies but just wanted to chime in.
Did you say on another thread you have PTSD relating to your relationship with your mum?
I have CPTSD (an assortment of traumas) and I’m just about to start therapy. It’s nerve wracking.
I hope today has been a better day for you.
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Hi @anon44466342 @LilyoftheValley
I don’t know if i have ptsd because ive no official dx of it.
Seeing all these topics about bullies tipped me over last night and i was ready to throw in the towel as far as family are concerned.
But today my perspective has changed back an i feel much better.
Ive rang my mum and asked her does she love me she said of course and she wouldn’t be visiting so much if she didn’t.
So i can breathe again.
Ive just walked the shop with hubby for milk and bread and going to get a shower now.
I do have trauma but i think its worse some days flares up.
Thanks so much for support xxx
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@anon85745701
Wow. So glad you made that call and got that response. =)
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Yes @Kxev
Families are hard work especially with paranoia on top of everything
Hope your okay
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Thanks for asking. My morning is the busiest part of my day. So far okay.
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I’m glad you’re feeling much better today 
well done for talking to your mum as well, and bringing up how you feel.
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@anon44466342
Thanks and good luck with starting therapy, let me know how it goes hun x
@Kxev glad your morning is going to plan , keep positive.
I feel glad ive had a shower now.
Car comes back from garage Wednesday after he knocked it.
Walking the shop everyday for milk is doing me good though, i feel like ive accomplished something lol 
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That’s great @anon85745701
I hate cars - went to target - waited in the parking lot with the music on and my battery died last week - costed me 80$ for a jump. So frustrated losing that money.
@Kxev wow thats a lot for a jump!!!
Hubby blacked out for a millisecond and hit the wall in the carpark, will cost a few hundred even though its his friends mate thats doing it.
Cars cost a lot!!
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That hurts. 。°。°。°。°。°
So where in the US are you? Just being nosey lol
Your married, do you have kids?
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I am in Southern California. Married - 22 years together. We are a gay couple who wanted kids in our twenties - but never made it happen. We have 2 chihuahuas. 3 total - our first one we got the year we met together.
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Wow so cute nice photo, nice to meet you x
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You too. =). Its been nice to get to know you. Are you guys with kids or planning. I don’t think I want them anymore - i dont think I would be a good parent.
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Hope everything works out for you.
Take good care. Nesta. x
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@Bowens Thank you for your post. Yes I must as I haven’t worked out how to write anything down apart from replying x
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Hi
Top right hand corner
Click on new topic
Select drop down option for lounge etc
Post
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are you ok now?
It takes a couple of times to get used to it
Just @admin
If you need help
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