she used to encourage my friends to abuse me and to ridicule me.
she hated my guts and still does. she milked me for all she could get out of me.
judy
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That sucks. My mom used to take her anger out on me. All my childhood I believed she’d kill me. Then I found out she was nothing but a coward. She’s apologized to me for the way she treated me. I told her, had it not been for my father’s love and affection, I would’ve killed her and my brother. I was just being honest with how I felt. I don’t condone what I said tho. Now, we have a good relationship. We’re honest and respectful towards each other.
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that’s amazing to me that you guys could grow together instead of apart.
lucky you. judy
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It took a lot of patience, forgiveness and honesty.
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Sorry…that must hurt a lot. 
How do you deal with her now? Hugs!
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I wasn’t even real to my mother until I was old enough to do chores.
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Not me. My mum loooves me
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now I woke up in a different mood and I feel that my mom loves me and always meant well.
this goes on with me all the time – all dependent on mood.
I bet it is my paranoia talking. thanks for all your support. I wish you great relationships in your life. i’ll be praying… judy
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Her behavior had been ill, but a possibility comes to my mind,
Maybe she thought that you are very soft hearted so tried to inject some hate into you to able you to survive on this cruel community, however her actions are not acceptable, sorry,
My mom’s a fu cking bi tch. Just now, I got yelled at for doing something that she told me to do. Then I got yelled at for asking for some waffles that she said she would buy. Then she scolded me for not eating the dinner she made last night even though I told her that my throat was sore and that I felt ill and tired. Then she started yelling about how I don’t care about how much money she’s spending and how the waffles were $3. Mind you, she bought some cookies that cost $3, because those are important. So guess what I’m eating for breakfast? I’m so fu cking livid right now. I want to break something.
That reminds me of the time I went to this run down pizza joint, on a highway, and there was a father and two kids. The kids were fine but the father starts yelling “this is how you act when I take you out someplace nice”. Made a whole scene in the place and all I could think to my self is this place is not nice and this guy is nuts
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So many negative posts about there mothers - its sad but true.
Mine used to throw me out the house when i was highly paranoid - and even started taking the piss outta me, when i started walking funny cos of the Haldol i was on.
I was ill for 3 months in her front bedroom for a while, and all she could do was complain i threw up on her carpet. My twin brother finally dragged me into
A+E then - where i was immediately admitted to intensive care with malnutrion, and yet when i tried to eat - she said i was greedy.
Now shes older - shes expecting sympathy - and me go running. I actually hope the â– â– â– â– â– is suffering and no i wont attend her funeral. Shes dead to me anyway.
Shes the reason i changed my name. Cos i was the target for her aggresive behavior when dad left. He was called Roger as well. I was named after him.
Arseholes to my “mother” - I hope Karma is biting her on the Arse.
That’s so painful. My mom neglected me severely when I was young. I ended up getting emancipated. But she changed and we get along well now so there’s still hope.
I had no antipathy towards my mother when I was a kid. But, when I became an adult of about 35, I became convinced that my mother hated me and really wished I were dead. My mother is dead today and I still believe that she hated me and wanted me dead. And I have no idea if that idea is real or just a delusion.
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