Ok, my mother now has problems with our office, which we rent, but she is terrible I find… She cries, she blames me that I am inactive, while I cant even stand on my feet by fear of such things…
She says non stop that I don’t help etc etc… Gosh, I am not sure she has a clue that its hell to be so scared as I am… I cant stand on my feet, folks, by fear sometimes… But she really makes harder the things…
Ok, shte is almost in depression now, but she blames me a lot, she criticizes me, she shouts here and almost curses that she got children like this… She cries about her fate to have had a sick husband and ill kids… But gosh, its exaggerated…Idk if your parents are like this…My pdoc told her, that I live in hell, but my anxiety and paranoia goes to the roof when my mom shouts at me… Idk, I think, that she has enough of my illness and doesn’t count it anymore… She is ultra pushy and just says, that she also feels bad, but she ‘‘does’’ the things…
Idk, its terrible in my house… After days when she shouts at me like this, I even refuse to go out, cause too overwhelmed by her problems… And nope, I cant move away, but I ask myself why she doesn’t get that she should be maybe nicer to me? When she has problems, she just gets terrible, really… And I am on klonopin because of her too…
Some people just aren’t Nice and will never be. I wish you the strength to deal with this difficult situation. Maybe try meditating in your room And keep inner peace.
hey nice advice by jonathan.
also i would add ignore her.
meditation will help.
But she even wants from me to listen her and watch her crying… She gets mad when I need to hide at my place… Its terrible… She is close to depression now ok, but I suffer as hell too and she doesn’t get it… She shouts at me non stop!!! does somebody here had to deal with parents like this?
Plus, she doesn’t believe at all in my recovery, nope…
luckily i dont have parents like her.
take it easy and ignore and stay away from her as much as possible
I cant leave out like this somebody in depression either… But yeah, she is hysterical…
When I tell her, that we’ll end up by selling our office, she says that I speak only stupidities cause no one will buy our office…
i understand u.
its a difficult situation.
u r the best person to handle it in a good way.
all i can say is try to ignore her ramblings
A lot of parents are like this.
Lots of them have unhealed wounds and expect us to care for them.
It’s their loss because they’re never going to get the love they want that way.
Horrible people.
You need a place to yourself.
Do you not get disability? If you do, you need to see if they can help you find a place or something…
That needs to be the understanding that our mental health system has; we need to get away from these kinds of toxic people. They’re part of the problem of why people can’t get better. We need proper loving care from people who actually can be supportive and not tear you down while you’re down.
I’m sorry @Anna1
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