i listened to my mom these many years i took her side since childhood
i also argued my dad with dad because he was against her about following jesus or any other work she does
its been 3 years my dad passed away now she says to her friend im like my dad which is not true
now that’s a serious insult
seriously what should i do about this woman
Give her a hug, make her a cup of tea.
Tell her you’re upset.
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Relapse in front of her eyes lol. If seriously, i dont know. Of you live with het then try to talk to a minimum and nke overshare everything, try not to argue
k i will try that
Try also to suprise her, like help to buy something for her or just buying flowers on occasion. Why exactly she compares you with your father? What same perks or opinions you share with him?
im already too much attached to her too much why should i buy her stuff she is not my girlfriend
Its nice to show some attention. Sometimes i clean the whole flat for me and my mom and she is really grateful
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Wait. I thought I was the only one whose family was screwed up. 
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I’m going to go with “tell her to go ■■■■ herself”. But I’m definitely projecting.
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I would try not to let it upset you. You are 50% like your father. She may perceive things much differently than you. You should try to be independent and realize that she sees things differently. If you’re making an effort to be cooperative with her, she shouldn’t have much to complain about.
I’m making effort to co-operate with her but she be like being stupid b**** so I severly swear at her nowadays she says like “don’t swear at me don’t abuse me and I dont want to feel your negativity” huh and she is dumb person who doesn’t knows about how to perfectly handle android system and then acts like w**** if she does such things she is supposed to hear swearing words by me but she be like “no I’m not going to cook food or do anything for you if yo do that”
Sometimes I think being an indian in india s****
I used to do that too but since she tried me to improve by jesus
So I don’t do that nowadays
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I believe my Mother has some kind of personality dissorder due to her upbringing. She too has been very manipulating and disrespectful. I also felt very sorry for her because my father didn’t love her back. She and I always had a bad relationship. I tried everything, I cried, yelled at her, wrote her letters explaining how I felt. It all didn’t matters. Then in 2018 I gave in and quitted contact with her. I’d accepted that She never would be the loving and caring Mother I longed for. And that I was better ought without her.
This year we started talking again because of my son, and I found out that she has changed completely. She is now a real Nice and supportive woman. I guess she was afraid of losing me for the rest of her life.
But you shouldn’t accept ■■■■■■■■ from your Mother, just because she is your family doesn’t give her the right to be Mean to you
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You too huh? The plot deepens.
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Jesus valued love and healing. I don’t think loyalty was such a big deal to him. Please don’t swear at me.
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You’re a ■■■■■■■ good guy!
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NOBODY will ever treat you as good as they treat them. Facts!
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