My husband has left me

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I am very sorry.I hope everything goes well for you from now on.I am sad to know that his friends don’t like you.that’s cruel.

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I’m sorry you are dealing with this. It happens and it’s never easy but ultimately I’ve found that such things can be for your benefit. Don’t give up hope in anything. Just do each day as it comes and don’t overthink things…life will adjust to normal levels.

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I’m so sorry to hear this. Please take time to heal.

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Sorry to hear this, @Katherine85. Take time for yourself to heal, and wishing you the best.

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WHAT?! Your husband is 16 years older than you? That means he was 35 and you were 19 when you two had started living together… From my perspective, an older man like him and a young woman like you would be a very desirable match.

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Here in Spain we say “el amor no tiene edad”. I don’t know why you are so surprised.

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@Katherine85 remember that when one door closes another opens. Take your time to heal from your wounds. I know it doesn’t seem so now but things will get better.

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Love and good wishes to you to get through such a difficult time.

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He’ll never find beautiful woman such as you are.
I wish you better man then this one.

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Sorry to hear that katherine

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Thank you so much, @anon54525863

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I’m so sorry, I know what it’s like to have a partner not wanting you anymore. I wish that you could take a happy pill to help with the pain but unfortunately time is the best healer. Make sure you talk as much as you can, talking helps.

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I’m so sorry to hear this @Katherine85. This must be a massive loss. Seek solice in your family and friends. We will be here for you as you need.

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Exactly. One month ago I lost my grandmother and now I have lost my husband. And I have lost him because of schizophrenia.

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im sorry to hear that katherine…hopefully you will be able to get over it quickly

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I’m so sorry. I can’t imagine how deep your pain is for losing him to something so out of your control. It sucks that his friends don’t like you. My husband has two female friends who don’t like me. One I don’t know why. But the other is very obviously in love with my husband. Anyway, I’m sorry this is happening to you. I hope you get some therapy to help you heal from this devastating blow.

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I asked my husband if he has met someone new, but he says he hasn’t. I’m not sure if he’s telling me the truth.

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I hope that’s not it. But try not to think about that. Instead, pamper yourself. Let yourself grieve the loss of your relationship. Work with a therapist to help you cope.

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I’m sorry you have to go through this. This community gathers around you as you grieve. Please keep letting us know how you are doing. I’m so sorry. My brother is going through a terrible divorce. It’s so hard. Don’t lose confidence in yourself.

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I also choose this path due to not risks involved.

I am sorry this has happened to you

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