My GF could leave me

I am losing faith,I don’t think she can accept my how I talk and how miserable as a person I am.I am very sad and worried also

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Have faith …!!! Keep on struggling…!!!

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Have you told her about your diagnosis yet?
If you haven’t she might think you’re “just” a negative person, and telling her might provide your both with relief since she’d then be able to understand why you are the way you are :slight_smile:

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I am confuse and I don’t know how should I tell her?
I know I should explain for my behavior anyway…
I have become such a boring person since being diagnosed and taking meds

You should tell her as it is. You have schizophrenia, and it affects you this-and-that way.

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That’s just crazy,I would at most tell her that I have depression,which is somewhat similar,and hope I can explain myself out

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She deserves to know what’s going on.
And if you were to worsen, wouldn’t you be more comfortable knowing she knows what’s going on and how to handle it?

If you decide for her that she can’t handle the truth, you’re not really giving her a chance.

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Schizophrenia/depression overlaps and hard to differentiate.Besides these illness cannot be proven up till now.I mainly have insomnia and mood anxiety issue only,never had voices or whatever

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You should explain your symptoms to her, if she asks what your diagnosis is, you shouldn’t lie. But if she does ask, just explain the ins and outs of what you go through so she can understand

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If your doctor tihnks you have schizophrenia, then that’s what you have.

I agree with @spiderpig, you should explain her your symptoms so she knows what you’re dealing with.

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Not a good talker.Mental health issue is too hard to explain

Not to sound negative here but if you tell her and she leaves, would you want to be with someone who doesn’t understand mental illness. That’s just my opinion. It’s too much stress to just avoid mentioning something as serious as this.

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Find something online to have her read then. Not letting your girlfriend know that you have an illness is wrong. She should have known before you guys were dating.

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If you don’t hear voices or hallucinations don’t tell her you have schizophrenia. That’s going to just confuse her. Just tell her you have depression and are working on it.

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Omg guys. Yo just tell her look hey the reason I got all the issues is because I have schizophrenia. I hear voices and I have paranoia and it makes me feel down and gives me trouble expressing myself. That’s why I’m the way I am." Bam you just explained it in the most best way and simpliest manner possible. This illness isn’t so flipping terrible you have to hide it from your significient other. She’ll just be understanding of it and itl explain a lot of things for her with you. So please don’t hid it. Your not a monster and you shouldn’t be afraid to tell the person you care about.

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Hey that’s okay :slight_smile: you could write down your symptoms if that would help, figure out what you want to say or just show her what you’ve written :slight_smile:

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Hello spiderpig you so great

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Aww @anon20318121 love ya :slight_smile:

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Hey bro… just know it isn’t the end…

Look at you though… From where you were at… you’ve actually managed to get a girl.

Hah dude I know it sucks to think about having to find another one… and trust me it actually really does suck to have to get another one.

But man… if you do wind up alone after this. At least you’ve gotten some of the failure complex cleared away. I hate to use those terms… But you’ve gotten there you know… You’ll never feel like your absolutely back at square one. You won’t ever need it to happen again in the same way.

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