My forever person just left me

My worst fear just came true. He says it’s not a break up but that he’s going to spend a few weeks at his dads place so he can have some alone time.

He says he’s not going to hurt himself. He’s promised that at least.

He just says he is unhappy. Unhappy in general and unhappy in our relationship.

We just had our 6yr anniversary, literally 5 days ago. We just got back from a lovely camping trip. We were just together. Now he’s packed some things and gone.

All i can do is cry.

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Oh dear that sounds mad

I’m sorry to hear that. :confused:

It sounds like it came as a shock. :slightly_frowning_face:

That’s really not great

Maybe have a text conversation with him why he feels like that.

So u can understand each other better. If he wants.

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Maybe he just needs some alone time to think??

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6 years is a long time in this modern world.

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A complete surprise.

He doesn’t want me to reach out to him much, unless I need something. So I’m going to respect that wish.

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I hope so. He says he will reconsider his decision to go at the end of the 3 weeks. God I hope he doesn’t end the relationship.

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I’m sorry. Meanwhile take care of yourself. Don’t think the worst.

Stay strong my friend!

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I’m sorry… Just take care of yourself. You can handle this …

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Thanks @Speedy I will try to see this as growth opportunity I guess.

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very sorry to hear this…sad…hope you get through ok…i would eat some ice cream or something soothing.

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Maybe I will have some icecream later tonight. I have no appetite currently :frowning:

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Ahh shucks

Sorry to hear that. Men just need some time alone sometimes… maybe he just needs to find himself. I’m sure you guys will be alright :heart:

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Im hoping he’s able to figure something out. I just want him to be happy.

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That hurts deeply. I’m so sorry. I hope he decides your relationship is worth fighting for

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Thank you, I hope so too.

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I hope u don’t feel like this is affecting ur sense of self esteem.

It’s easy to doubt oneself in situations like this.

Stay strong, we know you’re a beautiful person here.

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I’m sorry @bittercat. I hope things work out for you guys… give it time. He’ll come around.

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I’m sorry, @bittercat. I can’t imagine how hard this is, but I’m sending all the positive thoughts I can your way. Please take care of yourself in the interim.

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Hugs to you @bittercat .

That’s the tough thing about some relationships, some people just change over time.

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I’m sorry @bittercat. Try to hang in there, and take it one day at a time.

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