Im very unhappy

[Qwerty]

since my second son was born. with my relationship with my partner.

i feel trapped, and unable to leave him…because there are kids involved, and the place we live is in both our names.

last night was rough, I lost it and broke down. I have not told him though

ive asked him to leave in the past and he refuses.
i emailed CMHT last night begging for their help.

im going away today for the weekend, not far just a little break with the kids and my mother. I am going to use this time to reflect on everything and come to a decision about what i will do

could do with a hug

[Bowens]

15hugs

[Qwerty]

ty @Bowens i needed that.

[Hanna_Foxx]

Sending all the hugs

[WhiteRaven]

It must feel overwhelming. I feel for you. Hugs from WhiteRaven! I often feel overwhelmed with just having a dog to take care of, much less kids. Yeah, you deserve a break this weekend. I hope it helps you decompress…

[Qwerty]

ty @Hanna_Foxx 151515151

[Qwerty]

TY @WhiteRaven i need to go through with this though. Im just genuinly very unhappy and i know things wont change. It could get very messy with kids involved. Im hoping it doesnt.

[anon40326163]

Hugs to you @Qwerty.

[sweetpotatocasserole]

Hugs. I can relate. Take that break. You need it.

[Qwerty]

Ty @sweetpotatocasserole I think when I tell him it’s over he will try to persuade me to let him stay. He will want to talk etc. but I am just done. I need out.

[Vinegar]

So sorry your relationship isn’t working. You are doing the right thing in taking the kids and getting some time away to decide what you need to do.

Sending you good wishes and hugs

[jukebox]

I am sorry you are losing your husband…hope you can find a happy place apart.

[Wave]

Hugs))) @Qwerty

[Ducky]

You might just need a break from each other , talk to him regularly make time
Absence makes the heart grow stronger